Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
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The Problem of Misunderstanding January 1, 2008

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Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith No. 4341
Quran 13:28 · Ar-Ra'd
Al-Musannaf by Abd Al-Razzaq, Athar No. 21150
Quran 13:28 · Ar-Ra'd
Quran 24:22 · An-Nur
Quran 2:286 · Al-Baqarah
Sahih Al-Bukhari, Hadith No. 2961
Quran 10:62 · Yunus
Sunan Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith No. 3310
Quran 42:40 · Ash-Shura
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Why professional de-stressing gurus are a false-hope business
“The topic for this evening is the way of de-stressing”
5 min 58 sec
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Why popular de-stressing methods and books are false solutions
“The topic for this evening is the way of de-stressing”
54 sec
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Why the stop-thinking stress technique is flawed
“They said stop thinking, then you are free of stress”
1 min 28 sec
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Diabetic elder's simple stress formula: take it easy
“I happened to meet a gentleman in Bahawalpur”
28 sec
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Stress is intellectual, not a physical injury
“Stress is not a physical phenomena, not physical injury”
2 min 28 sec
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Mind as a super-computer: deleting bad memories
“If you type a matter in your computer but it's not good”
5 min 17 sec
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Mind as computer, and Dale Carnegie's tragic counterexample
“If you type a matter in your computer but it's not good”
5 min 51 sec
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The full 'save yourself' formula for a stress-free life
“My formula is very simple: save yourself”
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Forget others you cannot change, save yourself instead
“I cannot change people, so forget other and save yourself”
5 min 58 sec
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Believing all problems are part of God's creation plan
“When you take these problems as a part of nature, you will find solace”
27 sec
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Ali ibn Abi Talib's wisdom: whatever happened was good
“One wisdom given by Ali ibn Abi Talib: Al-Khair fima waqa”
2 min 27 sec
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Hajj story: a lost purse and trusting God's plan
“When I went to Hajj, with me there was an Arab sheikh”
5 min 52 sec
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Living with what you can't change: the mind's delete button
“Only immature people are living in tension and stress”
23 sec
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Maturity means living with things you cannot change
“Maturity is the ability to live with things you cannot change”
1 min 14 sec
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Only two options for unsolvable problems: suicide or delete
“Tension and stress are nothing but intellectual suicide”
1 min 8 sec
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Cow as divine industry: turning negativity into positivity
“I said adopt the cow culture”
2 min 1 sec
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The crucial first thirty seconds of controlling anger
“The first thirty seconds are very crucial in controlling anger”
1 min 20 sec
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Time management formula and the rubber-band Urdu couplet
“This is not the problem of one person, it's everyone's”
3 min 33 sec
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Why meditation is intellectual anesthesia, not a real solution
“I don't believe in the method of meditation”
2 min 16 sec
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True happiness is only achievable in the hereafter
“Prophet of Islam has said: there is no happiness in this world”
38 sec
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Answering whether taking revenge is ever justified
“Is taking revenge wrong then? No, revenge is totally wrong”
5 min 53 sec
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Muslims must fund worldwide Quran distribution amid rising curiosity
“God Almighty has created a curiosity among Muslims and non-Muslims”
20 sec
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Patience is the door to all success
“Try to keep patience”
2 min 13 sec
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Defining objective thinking as unbiased, realistic thinking
“What is objectivity and how to be objective?”
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Objective thinking simply means realistic, unbiased thinking
“Objective thinking means realistic thinking”