Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
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Good Relationships CPS Women Discussion 23 September 10, 2023

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53 sec
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cultivate your inner self before relationships
“Logon se behtar talluqat banane ke liye khud pehle apna sudharo”
28 sec
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circumstances don't decide your character, principles do
“Halaat hamare character ka faisla nahi karte”
4 min 45 sec
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diversity, envy, and life as God's test for all
“Man is a social animal — he can't live alone”
2 min
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Quran on envy and everyone's personal test from God
“Quran says don't wish for what others have been given”
1 min 22 sec
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kind outside, rude at home is not real good character
“Some people show great virtues outside but not at home”
2 min 8 sec
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envy of others' means and why deeds matter most
“Some have great means, others very limited — envy creeps in”
4 min 36 sec
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from envy over status to positivity in relationships
“Some have great means, others very limited — that breeds envy”
26 sec
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only your good or bad deeds go with you
“Only our good or bad deeds will go with us”
28 sec
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positivity transforms every relationship around you
“When positivity enters our life, our relationships improve too”
4 min 40 sec
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prophetic patience and the Ansar's ultimate generosity
“A woman used to throw garbage on the Prophet daily”
1 min 55 sec
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hadith of the garbage-throwing woman and a modern parallel
“A woman used to throw garbage on the Prophet daily”
2 min 19 sec
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the Ansar's unmatched generosity toward the Muhajireen
“When the Muhajireen reached Madina, the Ansar's generosity was unmatched”
42 sec
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Muslims call the Prophet a role model but don't follow him
“We call Prophet Muhammad our role model but don't follow him”
1 min 31 sec
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the gap between claiming and following the Prophet's example
“We call Prophet Muhammad our role model but don't follow him”
1 min 55 sec
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a neighbor's garbage conflict resolved through patience
“A neighbor's family kept dumping garbage right at her door”
5 min 8 sec
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neighbor conflict story and the virtue of patience
“A neighbor's family kept dumping garbage right at her door”
43 sec
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stepping back even when you're right is also sunnah
“Even when we are right, stepping back is also a sunnah”
2 min 44 sec
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focus on common ground to build good relationships
“Good relationships grow by discussing common ground, not uncommon ground”
3 min 52 sec
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common ground, Musa and Pharaoh, and humility with others
“Good relationships grow by discussing common ground, not uncommon ground”
21 sec
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Quran 31:18 against arrogance toward others
“Don't strut on the earth in arrogance, Allah dislikes the proud”
1 min 49 sec
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hadith on not hurting others, praying to be a mercy
“Don't trouble God's servants or expose their hidden faults”
29 sec
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hurting other people makes a person worthless
“Whoever hurts other people is a person without any worth”
52 sec
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the deep meaning behind saying Assalamu Alaikum
“When we meet, we say Assalamu Alaikum — peace be upon you”