Marriage of Muslim Man and Hindu Woman

maulana, agla sawal hai mr. faiz ka california se. unhon ne likha hai: "is marriage between muslim man and a hindu woman allowed in islam?" it is a practical matter faced by several in america. kya phir se parhiye? "is marriage between muslim man and a hindu woman allowed in islam?" it is a practical matter faced by several in america. dekhen, is maamle mein jo ulama ka maslak hai, woh sab ko maloom hai. wahi mera bhi maslak hai. main alag koi maslak nahin hoon. sab log jante hain ke ulama ka maslak kya hai. ulama ki rai kya hai is maamle mein? wahi meri bhi rai hai. ab is ko koi manta hai ya na maane, ab freedom is zamane mein hai, azaadi hai. aap maaniye ya na maaniye, lekin aap aisa to nahin kar sakte ke aap masle ko badal den.

aap masla nahin badal jayega. ulama ka maslak is bare mein sahi hai, aur main isi ko sahi manta hoon. to isi ko agar quran o hadith ko follow karna hai to maane, is ko nahin to kahe ke main quran o hadith ko nahin manta. to is ke bhi option is ko is zamane mein mila hua hai, is ko. lekin yaani quran ko aur hadith ko apni marzi mein dhalna, yeh to main samajhta hoon ke ghalati aur surkhi ka izafa hai. bahut ghalat hai yeh.

aur doosri baat yeh hai ke yeh, main ne bahut dekha hai aise logon ko, yeh log shadi ko love ki cheez samajhte hain. abe, bilkul yeh ghalat baat hai. shadi adjustment ki cheez hai. shadi love ki cheez hai hi nahin. yeh wajah hai ke jitni shadiyan hoti hain, sab tootti hain. jitni shadiyan is tarah ki main ne dekhi hain, woh sab tootti hain. main ne ek ek mazmoon padha tha, ek ek london se ek parcha nikalta hai, woh islamic review ghaliban is ka naam hai.

to is mein ek khatoon ka mazmoon tha, gail birth, ek british khatoon. to us ne kaha ke main ne ek pakistani musalman se shadi ki, aur main christian family mein paida hui thi. main aur hamesha mere uth ke darmiyan masla aaj tak baqi hai. kabhi hum log khushgawar zindagi nahin bani hamari. to is mein likha tha us ne ke international marriage kabhi nahin karna chahiye. apne tajrube ki bina par us ne kaha tha. to chahe hindu muslim ki shadi ho ya christian muslim ki shadi ho, yeh bilkul ghalat hai mere nazdeek. yeh ek ek masle ki baat hai. doosri baat yeh hai ke chalta nahin.

woh ab shadi karte hain is liye ke mil jul kar rahe hain, lekin wahan par jhagda f sad aur aur ya to break ho jata hai, talaq ho jata hai, ya hamesha aapas mein takrao chalta rehta hai. to is ka faida shadi se? shadi to is liye hoti hai ke ek khushi ki zindagi guzaren, aap dono mil ke ek ghar banayen, wahan khushgawar tareeqe se rahen. woh hota hi nahin. to main bahut badi fallacy hai ke log shadi ko love ka masla samajhte hain.

hargiz nahin. shadi jo hai, adjustment ka masla hai, aur yeh itni badi ghalati hai. is mein sari duniya mubtala hai. jitne naujawan hain, sab mubtala hain is mein. woh samajhte hain ke bas jahan love hai, wahan wahan khushi hai. nahin, jahan love hai, wahan khushi nahin hai. jahan adjustment hai, wahan khushi hai. main bahut misalen janta hoon is mein ke jinhon ne love affair chalaya, love bridge ki, woh bilkul nakaam rahe.

woh koi faida nahin. yaani ya to un ka talaq hua, ya hamesha aapas mein rift raha. hamesha rift raha aap s mein. lekin jo yeh samajh kar shadi kare ke hum ek ek partner hum apni zindagi ke liye le rahe hain, mujh ko is se adjust karna hai, is ko mujh se adjust karna hai taake hum ek ghar banayen, taake hum society ka ek yaani healthy part banen, tab woh kamyab hoti hai. shadi love ka masla hai hi nahin. yeh itne tajrube ho chuke hain, itne tajrube ho chuke hain, phir bhi log yeh sawal karte hain. yeh

Europe, America mein bohat ziyada 50 percent jo hai, separation hota hai. isi wajah se ab kya chala hai wahan ke baghair marriage ke saath raho? woh toh jaise just like animal banna banna chahte hain. woh ab western world mein yeh chala hua hai ke marriage chuki chalti nahi, is liye without marriage raho. yani aise hi raho animal ke tareeqe se. yeh yeh koi ek koi concept hai. kyun aise abhi tak log jab samajh nahi sake ke yeh ke is duniya mein hum sirf natural way ko follow karein, tab kamyabi bhi mile gi.

un natural way ko follow karein ge toh kamyabi bhi nahi mile gi. humein log samajhte nahi ke main heran hue itne tajrube ke baad bhi. yeh duniya jis ne banai hai, us ne ek law of nature qaim kiya yahan par. toh har mamle mein main kahunga ke sirf natural way ko follow karne mein kamyabi hai. un natural way ko agar follow karein ge aap toh sirf nakami hogi. is mein koi kuch milne wala nahi aap ko. Maulana, agla sawal hai Mr Sultan Kashmiri ka.