Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
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Ethics & Character · Q&A

Guidance for Communication to Avoid Negativity

“Many times during discussion, we say something to somebody out of pure well wishing, still the negative sentiment is aroused in the other person. Is there any guidance for communication, so that when we say what is right to anyone, the other person doesn't fall into negativity?”

He answers at 1:00:42 in Revival of Muslim Ummah · 1 min 12 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:00:42
sawal hai. unhon ne likha hai: "Many a times during discussion, we say something to somebody out of pure well wishing, still the negative sentiment is aroused in the other person." Maulana sahib, mera question hai: "Is there any guidance for communication, so that when we say what is right to anyone, the other person doesn't fall into negativity?" Dekhein, yeh bhi hota hai wahi conditioning ki wajah se . aap dua kijiye aur apni koshish ko jari rakhiye aur yeh koshish hai ke aap ka mind address ho. dua work bohat hi intricate work hai, bohat hi complex work hai, kyunke insan ke mind ko badalna, insan ko ek think pattern se doosri think pattern pe lana, yeh most difficult task hai.
1:01:38
to isi liye is ka sawab bhi zyada hai. to bas aap kaam karte rahiye, kaam karte rahiye aur dua khoob kijiye logon ke liye. inshallah kaam abhi hoga. Maulana, agla sawal Saudi Arab se hai Abu Hassan Umri sahib ka
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