“You explained the five steps in a very simplified way, and we understand how habit slowly develops and conditions the mind, which takes us to the point of no return. My question is that in guiding and raising our children, we as parents condition their mind by giving them certain concepts of Islam or beliefs which may not be correct. What should we do?”Asked by Tariq Badr, Lahore
maulana, agla sawal aaya hai lahore pakistan se tariq badr sahib ka, aur unhon ne likha hai: "maulana sahib, explain the five steps in a very simplified way, and we understand how habit slowly develops and conditions the mind, which takes us to the point of no return. my question is that in guiding and raising our children, we as parents condition their mind by giving them certain concepts of Islam or beliefs which may not be correct. so once the child reaches to the age of maturity, he becomes a conditioned person.
maulana sahib, please tell us how should we raise our children so that they do not become the victims of wrong beliefs, and when they reach to the age of maturity, they should be able to understand things clearly without any conditioning?" mein to samajhta hoon ke bachon ke liye do hi kaam hain: pampering bilkul na kijiye aur bachon ko parhnay ka aadi daliye. is se theek hai, bas. aur aur sab bekaar hai. aur jo baap baith baith kar in ko tarbiyat karte hain, woh bilkul be faida hai. koi koi faida is ka nahi, koi faida nahi. bas pampering zara bhi mat kijiye. pampering ko chor dijiye aur bachon se kahiye ke is tareeqay ka haath daalo, khud parho. baqi sab theek ho jaye ga.
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