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Silence and patience in anger management

“What role does silence play when one is angry? Many people think if you keep patience or observe silence, then the opposite party may feel that they have succeeded over you. This may lead to further exploitation. What is your advice?”Asked by فرحان, بھوپال

He answers at 1:16:30 in Self Correction · 2 min 42 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:16:30
Maulana, agla sawal Bhopal se aaya hai Farhan Sahab ka aur unhone likha hai ke Maulana, what role does silence play when one is angry? Many people think if you keep patience or observe silence, then the opposite party may feel that they have succeeded over you. This may lead to further exploitation. What is your advice? Isse zyada jhooti baat aur koi bhi nahi. isi jhoot mein musalman jee rahe hain. Sari duniya ke musalman isi mein jee rahe hain. Aur nateeja nahi dekh rahe, nateeja kya nikal raha hai?
1:17:10
tabahi mein izafa. Tabahi mein izafa yeh nahi ke koi sochta. Yani musalman yahi to kar rahe hain ke chup rehne ko tayyar nahi. to nateeja kya nikalta hai? Woh yani in terms of results, iska jaiza lein. Ki kisi ajib ghareeb baat hai ke chup na rehne ki policy mein chal rahe hain musalman. Aur tabah ho rahe hain har jagah. Kaisi ajib baat hai ke musalmanon ke andar yani apna revise karne ka madah khatam ho gaya. reassessment ka maada khatm ho gaya. har jagah yahi to ho raha hai. falasteen mein aap dekhiye, kya chup ho gaye woh?
1:17:53
chup nahi hain woh. lekin kya hota hai? yeh pathar maarte hain, woh bam maarta hai. yeh india mein aap dekh lijiye, yeh fasaad hote hain. isi mein hota hai ke musalman chup nahi rehte. action lete hain. to chup na rehne ki qeemat musalman do sau saal se bhi ada kar rahe hain aur abhi tak unke andar reassessment nahi aaya. har jagah jitne fasaadaat hain aur jitne bhi duniya mein jahan jisko kehte hain ke hamare saath zulm ho raha hai, har kahin bhi musalman chup nahi hain.
1:18:34
har jagah yaani apna chala rahe hain. to kam az kam ab to sochein, ab to tajurba karein chup rehne ka. yaani chup rehne ka tajurba hi nahi kiya musalmanon ne. aur sawal karte hain. hamare mashriq mein pehli baar chup rehne ka tajurba kiya gaya hai aur Allah ke fazl se is se bohat faiday hue hain. hamare mashriq ke bahar to koi hai hi nahi jisne chup rehne ka tajurba kiya ho do sau saal mein. to yeh sab sawal to mujhe bohat ajeeb maloom hote hain.
1:19:12
maulana, agla sawal pennsylvania, usa se khwaja kaleemuddin sahib ne kiya hai aur unhone likha hai are the words hobby and habit synonymous?
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