Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

What to do when spouse hinders spiritual mission?

“If a life partner is not compatible and does not support us in gaining spiritual food, and when we talk relevantly, they talk irrelevantly, what should we do? This causes disturbance in our mission.”Asked by Muhammad Abrar, Allahabad

He answers at 1:04:34 in Paradise as A Goal · 1 min 37 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:04:34
na kabhi unhon ne aisa kiya. aisa aisa nahi ke qatl kiya unhon ne. Maulana, yeh agla sawal aaya hai Muhammad Abrar sahib ka Allahabad se . Maulana, agar life partner hum mizaj na ho aur hamare spiritual food ko gain karne mein hamara saath na de, aur jab hum relevant talk karein, woh irrelevant talk kare to hamein kya karna chahiye? kyunke us ki wajah se hamare mission mein disturbance hota hai. nahi, dekhiye, yeh baat sahi nahi hai.
1:05:14
har aurat, har mard Allah ke paida kiye hue hain. aisa nahi ke kisi ko shaitan ne paida kiya hai, kisi ko Khuda ne paida kiya hai. to aap jis darje mein aap ka saathi aap ke aap se mawafqat kar raha hai, us par shukr kijiye. agar kami hai to us ke liye koshish kijiye, dua kijiye, koshish kijiye. aisa nahi hai ke woh bas woh saathi aap ka bigra hai, bigra hi rahega. aisa nahi, apni kami ko daryaft kijiye. ho sakta hai ke aap ki koi kami ho, jise aap jhaadak dete hon, ghussa hote hon, sakhti se baat karte hon, to us ko reaction aata hai.
1:05:56
us ke andar yeh yeh bhi ho sakta hai. main is ko nahi manta ke koi aurat ya mard paidaishi taur par bure hain. main is ko nahi manta. Maulana, yeh agla sawal kiya hai Dr. Musleh Siddiqui ne Delhi se. Maulana sahib, yesterday when earthquake came, I saw many people running out of their houses to save their lives,
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