Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

What is true well-wishing according to you

“You often teach everyone to become well-wisher for others. I want to know from you what is true well-wishing. Please comment on this.”Asked by قاضی مجیب, بھومنیشور

He answers at 1:02:24 in Discovery of Paradise · 1 min 29 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:02:24
مولانا، اگلا سوال کیا ہے بھومنیشور سے قاضی مجیب صاحب نے، اور انہوں نے لکھا ہے کہ: "مولانا، you often teach everyone to become well-wisher for others." I want to know from you what is true well-wishing. please comment in this. jo quran mein is ki jo lafz istemal kiya gaya hai, woh nasah no saad hai, yani khair khwahi. mein samajhta hoon ke khair khwahi ki training insan ko apne ghar se hoti hai. har aadmi apne baap ka khair khwah hota hai, apne maa ka khair khwah hota hai, apni aulad ka khair khwah hota hai. to kya wajah hai ke woh ghar mein to khair khwah ho raha hai aur bahar jo hai, woh bata ban jaye? yeh yeh contradiction ko khatam karna.
1:03:16
mere shayad bane ke bane ke tum contradiction mein kyun jeete ho? koi aadmi duniya mein aisa nahi milega aap ko jo kahe ke mein apne baap ka khair khwah nahi hoon, maa ka khair khwah nahi hoon, apni aulad ka khair khwah nahi hoon. to kya wajah hai ke insan yani double mind ke sath jeeta hai? yani ghar mein to family member ke sath khair khwahi aur bahar jo insan bachta hai, us ke liye badkhwahi. to is contradiction ko khatam karna isi ka naam khair khwahi hai.
1:03:53
Maulana, agla sawal kya hai Jodhpur, Rajasthan se Muhammad Waqas sahib ne, aur unhon ne likha hai: "is
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