How to deal with feelings of superiority?
“Why does it happen that I feel superior to some of the people around me? How should I act when this complex arises in me?”Asked by احتشام حسنین, حیدرآباد
He answers at 1:15:29 in Revival of Faith · 3 min 40 sec
1:15:29mr ehtesham hasnain ne hyderabad se sawal likha hai. maulana sahib, woh pooch rahe hain ke "why does it happen that i feel superior to some of the people around me? how should, how should i act when this complex arises in me?" bhai, yeh to aik stepped baat hai. superior ko samajhte hain aap? hain superior ko samajhte hain? superior kuch hai hi nahi. insaan kuch hai hi nahi. jab insaan ko koi bhi cheez us ki self acquired nahi hoti, khuda ki di hui hoti hai, superior kahan se ho jayega woh?
1:16:14yani hamare paas, hamari zindagi, hamara dimagh, hamara saman, kuch bhi jo hai, woh self acquired nahi hai. woh khuda ki di hui hai. to kis baat par superiority? yani agar aap ne socha to sawal borderry ke. aur koi soch us ke andar nahi aayegi. to yeh to aik unnatural baat hai. aik na sochne ki wajah se aisa hota hai. na sochne ki wajah se agar aap yeh sochein ke mere paas koi bhi self acquired nahi hai, sab khuda ki di hui hai, to phir border se border se jayegi.
1:16:58maulana zikwan nadvi ne dili se likha hai: " hadith mein kaha gaya hai ke tum log mere mamle mein is jaisa, yaani utra mat karna, jaisa ke nasara mein ibn maryam ke bare mein kiya tha. mera sawal yeh hai ke woh kya cheez hai jis ko is hadith mein utra kaha gaya hai, aur mazhabi tabqe se is burai ko door karne ka tareeqa kya hai?" asal mein is se murad hai wahi jis cheez ko kehte hain hum shakhsiyat parasti. angrezi mein kehte hain is ko personality cult. nasr ne farmaya ke personality cult mein mubtala na hona, kyun ke yeh har qaum mein yeh baat hoti rahi hai hamesha, aur aaj bhi hoti hai ke kisi qaum mein koi aadmi, koi yaani baap paida ho jaye, koi bada kaam kare to foran hi is ko yaani samajh lete hain ke koi khaas cheez tha, special samajh lete hain is ko, special hai.
1:18:05ise phir personality cult aata hai, phir shakhsiyaton ki pooja aati hai. to jitne bhi yeh but hain idhar udhar duniya mein, woh but haqeeqat mein un ke apne bare the, apne qabile ke, apni qaum ke bare the. inhi inhi ko unhon ne but mein aa ke poojne lagay. woh to is mein is aam jo rujhan hai insanon ke darmiyan personality cult ka, yaani shakhsiyat parasti ka, use roka gaya hai. mein bohat sochta hoon musalman aaj poori tarah is mein mubtala hain,
1:18:39is mein mubtala hain. yaani personality cult poore maanon mein musalman mein aa chuka hai, aur yeh yeh bohat zyada zaroori hai ke yaani islaah-e-millat ke kaam ke silsile mein is ko ahmiyat di jaye, aur is aitbar se musalmanon ko paas personality cult se bahar nikala jaye. mister naeem bilali ne dili se sawal likha hai. unhon ne likha hai ke jahan mein rehta hoon, wahan labor tabqa rehta hai.