Guidance on handling anger and frustration

maulana, agla sawal singapore se hai, mr sailesh malhotra ka. unhon ne likha hai: "maulana, your words are very thought provoking and very true. there are often challenging situations which arise from time to time, and often these result into anger and frustration. sometimes these frustrations come out in words, causing hurt to everyone, and followed by regret later. dear Maulana, please guide me that if a situation like this comes again, what should I do to subside negative thoughts and angry words?

I want to go to paradise with the rest of the CPS team, and don't want to lose this because of my stupid mistakes." dekhiye, paradise ki qeemat hai acceptance of reality. paradise ki qeemat hai acceptance of reality. yani duniya mein jo creator hai, creator us ne apne plan ke mutabiq duniya ka ek system banaya hai.

is system mein har ek ko azaadi hai, har ek ko total freedom hai. to apni freedom ko woh chahe misuse kare, chahe proper use kare. yahi woh cheez hai jo hamare andar paida karti hai anger, complain, protest, yeh sab cheezen. to pehli condition yeh hai ke aap accept karen Allah ki is ki maaf things ko. yani jis cheez ko le kar aadmi ghussa hota hai, shikayat karta hai, protest karta hai, to kis ke khilaaf karta hai? woh bazahir kisi insaan ke khilaaf hoti hai, woh lekin hoti hai woh Khuda ke khilaaf.

jab aap bolte hain America ke khilaaf to aap bolte hain Khuda ke khilaaf. America jo kuch bhi kar raha hai, woh Allah ki di hui freedom par kar raha hai. Yahudi jo kuch kar raha hai, woh Allah ki di hui freedom par kar raha hai. Hindu jo kuch bhi kar raha hai, woh Allah ki di hui freedom par kar raha hai. to jab aap shikayat karte hain, protest karte hain, kis ke khilaaf jati hai? woh Allah ke khilaaf jati hai. woh to isi ko maine kaha ke ke acceptance of reality jo hai, wahi price hai jannat ki.

isi ko Quran mein dekhiye: "raziyallahu anhum wa razuwan". yani jo log raazi ho gaye Allah ki is ki maaf things par, to Allah un se raazi ho jayega. yeh jo ayat hai Quran majeed ki, is ko bhi log samajhte nahin. mysterious bana rakha hai is ayat ko. mysterious. "raziyallahu anhum wa razuwan" ka matlab yeh hai ke jo log raazi ho gaye Allah ki is ki maaf things par, apne aap ko aap ko is se adjust kiya, to Allah un se raazi ho jayega.

Allah ka jo plan hai, Allah ka jo plan hai, jo creation plan hai, us ke mutabiq jo is ki maaf things hain, to woh hamare hamein pasand aaye ya na pasand aayen, har haal mein hum is se raazi ho jayen. hamare muwafiq ho, hamare khilaf ho, hamein chot lage ya chot na lage, hamein shock pounchay ya shock na pounchay, har haal mein hum is par raazi ho jayen. yahi matlab hai "razi allahu anhum wa ridwan" ka ke jo log Allah ki is ki maaf things par raazi ho gaye, to Allah un par raazi ho jayega. to ek baat yeh hai. doosri baat maine arz ki, jaisa ke abhi ke jo log is par raazi na hon, to kya hota hota hota hai? woh hypocrite bante hain. hypocrite.

yani hypocrisy is direct result of non acceptance of reality. kyunke aap kya karenge? badal sakte sakte nahi hain Allah ke naqshe ko. to aap kya karenge? jahan interest kal hoga, wahan aap adjust karenge. jahan interest dekhenge, mein interest kal nahi ho raha hoga, wahan aap bolenge, wahan aap josh dikhayenge, wahan aap violence karenge. to dekhiye, yeh yeh bilkul hi ek simple formula hai ke agar aap chahte hain ke jannat mein mujhe dakhla mile, then you have to accept the reality. aur koi doosra rasta nahi. doosra rasta hai woh kya hai? woh apne aap ko aap kal karna hai, apne aap ko destroy karna hai, apne aap ko tabah karna hai.

maulana, agla sawal lene se pehle ek comment parhna chahenge jo miss fatima sarah ka aaya hai bangalore se. unhon ne likha hai: "i want to share a conversation with a cousin sister.