Explaining Taleef-e-Qalb softening hearts

maulana, agla sawal dilli se hai nafees sahab ka. unhon ne aap se talif-e-qalb ke bare mein poocha hai aur unhon ne likha hai ke agar koi udharan de kar agar aap samjhane ka priyas karen to ateeq kripa hogi. dekhen, talif-e-qalb jo hai, is ko angrezi mein kahen ge "softening". "softening the heart". dil ko narm karna aur yeh ek fitrat ka qanoon hai. aap har kaam mein aap aisa karte hain. aap jab business karte hain ya aap job karte hain, aap rishtedaron se milte hain, har jagah aap yeh usool istemal karte hain.

talif-e-qalb ka, yani dil ko narm karne wali baat. to yeh koi anokhi baat nahi hai. isi ka islam mein dawat ke maqsad ke liye istemal kiya gaya hai. woh kaise? jaise ke aap narm boli bolen, achhe alfaz mein is ko khitab karen. ek kitab, woh farz ki jiye ke kharidne ke liye keh raha hai, aap free mein de den is ko. yeh sab talif-e-qalb hai.

jaise ek sahab ne mujhe waqea bataya ke woh bus mein safar kar rahe the to hamare haan ki chhapi hui kitab, is ka naam hai "insan apne aap ko pehchan". woh urdu mein, hindi mein, english mein, teeno zubanon mein milti hai. to woh parh rahe the is ko to ek ghair muslim wahan baithe hue the. un ko yeh naam kuch, ek ek, woh kuch naam se attract hue, woh ke "insan ne apne aap ko pehchan". to unhon ne kaha ke yeh kitab kya main kharid sakta hoon? matlab is kitab ko chahte the ke paise de kar khareeden. to unhon ne kaha "main aap ko gift deta hoon".

yeh hai talif-e-qalb. to talif-e-qalb koi anokhi cheez nahi hai. mauqa mauqe ke lehaz se, jaise aap kisi jagah gaye, kisi gurudware mein, mandir mein to wahan prashad diya. unhon ne ab aap kahen ke "hai yeh to, yeh to shirk hai, yeh to, yeh to jaiz nahi hai". to yeh talif-e-qalb ke khilaf hoga. aap le lijye is ko bohat shauq se, shukriya ka ada karte hue. woh talif-e-qalb ki niyat se lijye is ko to sawab ho jaye ga aap ko.

to talif-e-qalb ka koi laga bata usool nahi hai. mauqe ke lehaz se mad'u ko ke dil ko narm karna aur is ko aisa, yani aisi situation create karna ke bohat hi normal zehan ke sath woh aapse baat kare, aap kitab ko padhen. bas isi ka naam talif-e-qalb hai. is ka, is ki koi fees nahi bana sakte hum. koi is ki fees nahi hai ke aaj jab mandir mein jayen to barsaat qabool kar len. aisi koi fees nahi hai.

har mauqe ke lehaz se talif-e-qalb hoti hai. to agar aap ko dawat ka jazba aap ke andar zinda hai, aap mad'u ke sath aap khair khwah hain, yani aap ke andar mad'u friendly zehan hai, aap ke andar mad'u friendly zehan hai, to aap khud foran aap ko samajh mein aa jaye ga ke yahan par hum talif-e-qalb ka kaun sa tareeqa istemal karen jo mu'assir ho. maulana, agla sawal dilli se hai doctor taah ka. unhon ne likha hai ke "quite a few times it happens that we are invited in gatherings or parties.