How to overcome carelessness and achieve goals?
“I am very careless at times, despite knowing all the pros and cons of being careless, and knowing that the path I have chosen will surely lead to failure. Why does this happen? Please suggest and advise me, how should I become consistent in achieving my goals?”Asked by مسٹر عہد شام حسنین, حیدرآباد
He answers at 1:35:07 in The Character of a Dayee · 2 min 30 sec
1:35:07maulana, agla sawal haiderabad se aaya hai mr ahad sham hasnain sahib ka. unhon ne likha hai: "maulana, I am very careless at times, despite knowing all the pros and cons of being careless, and knowing that the path I have chosen will surely lead to failure. why does this happen? please suggest and advise me, how should i become consistent in achieving my goals?" yeh to koi, yeh to koi sawal nahi hai. main yeh kahunga ke aap ya to apni aql ko develop kijiye, nahi to kisi ko apne guru bana lijiye. do mein se ek kaam kijiye, aap ne third option le rakha hai.
1:35:54ya to apne apna intellectual development andaza kijiye ke aap, aap ke saare action aap ki, aap ki aql ke pakad mein aa jayein. yaani itna aap is apne mind ko develop karein, itna develop karein ke woh control kare aap ke saare actions ko. agar aap nahi kar paate hain to phir kisi ko apne guru bana lijiye, murshid bana lijiye. aksar log teesra, aathwan le rakhe hain ke na to kisi ko murshid banate hain, na khud apni aql, na development karte hain apni aql ka, aur yun hi bhagte hain idhar udhar. to woh third position le rakha hai unhon ne.
1:36:34to main yeh kahunga ke aap ke liye do mein se ek ka option hai: ya to study kar ke, gaur o fikr kar ke, aur jo bhi tareeqa hai learning ko badhane ka, is ko ikhtiyar kar ke apna intellectual development ka intezaam karein ke woh aap ke poore, yaani poori life ko control karne lage, aap ke actions ko control karne lage. kyun ke main samajhta hoon ke yeh jo phenomena hai, woh haqeeqat mein hota hai jab intellectual development mein kami ho, tab hota hai. aisa
1:37:17ya to aisa kijiye, ya phir kisi ko murshid maan lijiye, yaani jis ko main kehta hoon, yaani unconditional guru, jis par aap ko bharosa ho, jis aalim par, us ko aap bana lijiye. koi teesra option mumkin nahi hai, woh jo kaha hai, us ko kijiye. maulana, agla sawal srinagar se hai mr riyaz ahmed bhat sahib ka. unhon ne likha hai: "dawa'at al allah ke liye well wishing asal hai, lekin aaj kal ke musalmanon mein mad'u ke liye well wishing ka jazba maujood nahi.