Practical Way to Avoid Negativity

sajid anwar sahab ne mumbai se likha hai: "my take away from today lecture: to be a self made person, one should focus on self and completely avoid getting engaged in negativity." yeh sawal bheja hai kanpur se hussain siddiqui sahab ne. unhon ne aap se poocha hai: "maulana, you said you do not have any complaint against anyone. please, can you give us a practical way? we we can all do, as even if we try, then also negativity does not go away." aap meri zindagi ka study kijiye. main to kabhi complaint nahin karta. complaint karna meri vocabulary mein hai hi nahin, kyunke is mein jis cheez ko log complaint ka item banate hain, us ko main learning ka item banata hoon.

jis cheez ko log complaint ka item banate hain, us ko main learning ka item banata hoon. to yeh to insaan ki apni weakness hai. hazrat umar ke bare mein aaya hai ke kan yata'allam min kulli ahad, woh har ek se seekhte the. har ek ka matlab hai ke chahe woh ulti ulti baat kahe, seedhi baat kahe,

us ko learning ka item bana dete the. aap bhi aisa kijiye. maheboob bhai ne mumbai se likha hai: "maulana, aaj maulana, aap ne criticism ko blessing samajhna kaha hai, aur aap hamesha ek baat ko alag aspect se is tarah wazeh kar dete hain ke bilkul nai baat lagti hai. aaj aap ne criticize karne wale ko farishta samajhna keh kar mere liye paradigm shift kar diya hai. maulana, aap mere liye allah ki taraf se bheje hue rehmat ho. jazak allah maulana."

miss caroline ne srinagar se likha hai: "managing the problem is better than trying, rather fighting with it. managing will lead to the solution of problem amicably. jazak Allah Maulana, what an enlighten statement ! you are really a torch bearer for us. god bless you with great health." mashaa Allah. Maulana, yeh sawal Saudi se bheja hai Gulzar Khan sahib ne. unhon ne likha hai: "Maulana, sometimes we know we need to change and try, but anxiety and tension keeps us away from changing our mind set to positive.