Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

Parenting training for children

“How should parents train their children?”Asked by Mr. Nadeep Kapoor, Delhi

He answers at 1:23:11 in Quran for All Mankind · 1 min 29 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:23:11
maulana, agla sawal mister navdeep kapoor ka hai, dilli se. unhon ne aapse poocha hai ke "how should parents train their children?" is ke bare mein batayen. mein to samajhta hoon ke starting point hai ke pampering ko haram samajh lein. easy money se akhirat tak bachayein. kyunke pampering ke sath aur easy money ke sath aap kabhi bachchon ko kuch nahi kar sakte. woh to bigad kar rahenge, woh bigad hi kar rahenge. woh
1:23:43
lekin is ka matlab nahi ke aap danda danda marein, ghussa karein. nahi, is ka matlab un ki, un ki, un ki, un ke mind ko address kijiye, un ko convince kijiye. to ek taraf to pampering se bachna hai, easy money se bachna hai aur ghusse se hi bachna hai, danda danda marne se bachna hai. lekin jo kaam karna hai, woh yahi ke aap un ke mind ko address karein, yani reasoned way mein baat ko samjhein. unhein mera tajurba yeh hai ke har aadmi, chahe bachcha ho ya bada, har cheez ko idhar udhar reason out karne ki koshish karta hai. aadmi by nature aisa hai ke woh chahta hai reason out karna.
1:24:29
to reasoned way mein agar baat kahi jayegi to wohi baat asar kar sakti hai. mera tajurba yahi hai. maulana, agla sawal Mr. Sajid Anwar sahib ka hai, Rurki se. unhone aap se poocha hai ke "what is the secret of success?" is ke bare mein batayein.
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