Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

Qualities of a da'i and initial speech

“Tell us the special qualities of a da'i, and how should a da'i initially speak to the mad'u?”Asked by Mr. Muhammad Altafuddin Inamdar, Delhi

He answers at 35:54 in Q&A · 1 min 4 sec

His answer, in his own words
35:54
molana, agla sawal delhi se hai mr mohammad altafuddin inamdar sahib ka. unhon ne poocha hai ke: "dai ke khaas sifat batayen, aur dai madu se start mein kaise baat karen?" sara wahi khulasa hai: well wishing, khair khwahi. maa baap ko apne bete se khair khwahi hoti hai to us ko koi us ko mashwara poochne nahi jata. woh woh khud janta hai ke mujhe kya karna chahiye. to sara jo is mein, yaani jo uska jo khulasa hai, woh yahi hai ke madعو ke liye khair khwahi, well wishing. jab tak yeh nahi hogi, tak batane se bhi kuch baat aadmi pakdega nahi.
36:49
jo mohabbat hoti hai maan baap ko apne bete se, woh mohabbat jab tak paida nahi hogi madعو se, tab tak yahi sab rahega. maulana, unka ek aur sawal hai. unhone poocha hai ke: "sahaba ke khane rehne aur sone ka kya nizam tha? hadith ki roshni mein batayen."
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