How to turn a negative person positive
“How can a negative person be made into a positive person? Because once someone becomes negative, it becomes very difficult to make them positive.”Asked by Iqbal Umri, Chennai
He answers at 43:20 in Double Reward · 3 min 29 sec
43:20maulana, agla sawal bheja hai chennai se maulana iqbal umri ne. unhon ne likha hai: "negative person ko positive person kaise bana sakte hain?" kyunke koi ek martaba negative ho jata hai to bari mushkil hoti hai kisi ko positive banana. nahi, is ki kitab hai, is mein kitabein aise thi nahi. Hum ne ek kitab alag se tayyar ki aur chhapi. Hamari kitabein parh parh ke bohat log badal gaye kyunke kitabein nahi thi. Aisa nahi hai.
44:09Wo mein apna tajurba bataungi ke mein bhi university mein parhati thi to mujhe bhi yeh sare tajurbe hote thay. Universityon ka yeh culture hai, har aadmi aage barh jana chahta hai. Group bane hue hotay hain, sab doosre group walon ko hamesha wo necha dikhana chahte hain. Un ko koi support nahi karte hain. To yeh sab hota hai, lekin hamein bilkul is ko is ko bura nahi manna chahiye. Agar koi kuch kar raha hai to wo apne, is ko apna interest kuch hoga, kar raha hai. Hum apna kaam karein, wo apna kaam kare. Lets agree to disagree, aur hum is ko toleration is mani mein, matlab positive toleration. To hum is ko tolerate karte thay. Is liye hamara shayad 24 saal hum ne parhaya aur aur hamesha yeh sab hota raha hai. Is ko tolerate karte thay, hum kabhi na jhagda hua, na kabhi kuch hua.
44:59Aaram se poora term kar ke hum retire hue, warna to har jagah aise ladte rahenge to kuch bhi kaam nahi kar sakenge. Ghar mein baith ke kaise time zarrega? Bohat se misalein hain, bohat se misalein. Maulana, ek Chennai se Maulana Iqbal Umri aap se pooch rahe hain ke option sirf apni positivity ko qaim rakhna hi hai. Yeh baat kahan tak sahi hai? Unhon ne likha hai: "Option sirf apni positivity ko qaim rakhna hi mumkin hai." Maulana, yeh baat kahan tak sahi hai?
45:44Nahi, aap dawat dijiye, samjhaiye. Chhodiye mat kisi ko.