How to control and manage anger?
“Every person experiences anger issues and most of us do not know how to handle it. We want your guidance as to how we can control our anger. Also how do you manage your anger?”Asked by Shaheen Yousuf, Guwahati
He answers at 41:11 in Patience and Crisis · 2 min 15 sec
41:11jazak allah maulana sahib. " maulana ab sawal lena chahenge. yeh sawal gawhati se miss shaheen yusuf ne poocha hai. unhone likha hai: "maulana every person experiences anger issues and most of us do not know how to handle it. we want your guidance as to how how how can we control our anger. also how do you manage your anger?" dekhein ghusse ko manage karna yeh allah ke culture mein jeena hai.
41:56mujh ko bhi ghussa aata hai lekin mujh ko foran yeh baat yaad aati hai ke allah ki jo status of thing hai, allah ka jo nizam hai insan ke liye, is mein toh zaroor aisa hoga ke ek se doosre ko kahin na kahin ghusse ka sabab paida ho jayega. toh aap ghusse ko jab peete hain, ghusse ko darguzar karte hain toh allah ke liye hota hai, woh insan ke liye hota hi nahi. ghusse ko darguzar karna, ghusse se bachna, woh insan ke liye hai hi nahi, woh allah ke liye hai. jab yeh baat mere dil mein aati hai
42:51toh aap ghor kijiye ke kya main itna pagal hoon ke ghussa karunga allah ke samne? ghussa ek hi nuqta hai jo mujhe ghusse se rokta hai, woh ek hi ghussa. insan ke liye toh hai hi nahi, yeh toh allah rab ul alameen ke liye hai. toh phir ghussa kaisa hai? yahi cheez mujh ko ghusse se rokti hai.
43:26maulana agla comment aur sawal dilli se aaya hai doctor naghma siddiqui ka. unhone likha hai: "maulana jazak allah for giving such a clear lecture on the importance of sabr aur advance training for jannat.