Dealing with anger when instigated

Inshallah, I will strive to apply your teachings into my life." Inshallah. Maulana, agla sawal aah bheja hai Miss Marvi Pathania ne Gurgaon se, unhon ne likha hai: "My question is how to deal with anger when in spite of adopting an approach of keeping our calm, someone is continuously instig ating you?" Dekhiye, mere tajurbe ke mutabiq yeh bohat hi aasan hai, is ko bhi is ko janna hai, is ko tajurba karna hai.

Woh kya hai? Aap chup ho jaiye. Jab aap ko kisi se par ghussa hai to kuch mat kijiye, sirf chup ho jaiye. Main ne bohat baar tajurba kiya is ko ke agar aap chup ho jate hain to kya hota hai ke nature ka process chal parta hai. Nature yani Pehle pehle second mein woh process chalta hai, outward

chalta hai. Lekin agar aap chup ho jayen to suddenly aik aik aik anokhi baat hoti hai ke woh downward chalne lagta hai. Yani pehle moment woh chalega outward, lekin agar chup ho jayen to apne aap hi woh chalega downward aur phir sab kuch khatam ho jayega. Aap jab bhi yani chahen is ka tajurba kar lijiye, jab bhi chahiye. Yeh aap ko kuch karna nahi hai, nature ki potential ko use karna hai, bas kuch bhi nahi karna hai aap ko.

Jis Khuda ne insaan ko paida kiya hai, us Khuda ne insaan ke andar yeh aik azeem taqat rakh di hai ke agar tum chup ho jao to apne aap hi aik process jari hoga aur woh dheere dheere sab khatam ho jayega. Aap tajurba kar ke dekh lijiye. Maulana, aik comment parhna chahenge jo Professor Fareeda Khanam ne bheja hai Delhi se, unhon ne likha hai: "There is a non-Muslim family in our neighborhood. We have been living in this society for about forty years, but we never went to their home. About six months ago, I saw that the lady had fractured herright hand.

She was in great trouble. She had not got theright treatment. So I went to her and provided all the aid. I asked my physiotherapist to treat her and I paid the fees myself. After about three months, her hand healed fully. Now she is so indebted to us for this act that she tells people that they are bhagwan, yeh hamare bhagwan hain. I think we can solve our problems by building good relations. Itna aasan hai, ghor kijiye, aik aise country mein aap hain jahan aik shabd bol kar ke aap logon ko jeet sakte hain.

Aik shabd, main ne khud tajurba kiya hai, aap ko naam ke sath is ka aap ko address de sakta hoon ke aap sirf yeh yeh kijiye ke meethe shabd boliye, meethe shabd, Aur sab kuch achanak sab kuch aap dekhen ke sab kuch solve ho chuka hai. Hamare jo log hain, woh sirf reaction jante hain. Reaction yeh dekhiye, reaction ki logic yeh hai ke jab aap react karte hain to woh bhi react karega. To kya ho jayega ke aik

Aik reaction ka aik aik aik silsila chal parega. aap ka reaction, un ka reaction, aap ka. aap kuch mat kijiye ke koi aadmi aap ke sath koi nakhushgawar baat karta hai to sirf chup ho jaiye, ek kalma bol dijiye. yeh to nature ki taqat hai, jaag uthe gi aap ko. dekhiye, nature ki taqat har waqt jaagne ke liye tayar hai.

lekin hamare sathhi jo hain, woh jante hi nahi is potential ko, nature ke potential ko jante hi nahi. sajid ahmad khan sahib ne nagpur se comment bheja hai, unhon ne likha hai: "Molana, nobody is our enemy. This concept I have discovered from your company . Every person in our contact is either friend or potential friend. I believe that this is the best way to live in every society. If we are positive in our mind, then every situation is an item of thanks and thanks only to God.

jazak Allah Maulana. doctor safina tabassum ne saharanpur se likha hai: "I really thank God for giving us guidance through you. In the times of widespread negativity, we are totally positive and unaffected by the environment. This is all because of your teachings. Really thank you from the core of my heart." ma sha Allah. Maulana, ek sawal aaya hai, yeh sawal aaya hai lucknow se firoz sahib ne kiya hai, unhon ne likha hai: "Molana sahib, today's talk was very beneficial for me.