Managing emotions during controversy

Maulana, ab sawal lena chahenge. Yeh sawal Lucknow se bheja hai Sanaullah Khan sahab ne. unhon ne likha hai: "Maulana, how to manage one's emotions which run very high during the period of controversy? In such a situation, temper usually flares up and it is difficult to see reason. What is your advice?" Dekhiye.

Controversy ko ladaai banana ya controversy ko management banana, management ka usool, dono ek second ki baatein hain. Yeh mera tajurba hai. Maine apne ghusse ko is tarah se manage kiya hai ke jab ghussa bharkta hai to main foran chup ho jata hoon. Poori tareekh mein maine apni apni tareekh mein aisa kiya hai ke ghussa aaya to main chup ho gaya. Chup honay ke maani kya hain?

Let your mind to manage the issue. Apne mind ko mauqa do. Chup hona ek ek ek bohat bara tareeqa hai, method hai. Jaise hi aap chup hote hain, mind mind work karne lagta hai. Jab aap bol bol, jab ghussa aaya aur bol pade aap to aap ka ego bharkta hai. Lekin jab aap chup ho jayein to aap ka jo wisdom, wisdom amal karta hai.

ek ego, ek wisdom. to bohat aasan tareeqa hai ke jab bhi aap ko ghussa aaye to aap chup ho jaiye aur wisdom ko mauqa diye ke woh manage karey. is ke bar aks agar aap bolenge, takrao ki baatein karenge to aap ka ego bhadkega aur woh sirf ego hamesha sirf yeh badhata hai, maslay ko badhata hai, maslay ko hal nahi karta. doctor naghma siddiqui ne dilli se likha hai: "today i understood the importance of managing controversies by taking a step b

ack. it is really an amazing principle of life given by prophet muhammad. we receive god's help then. i will definitely follow this in my life." mahboob bhai ne mumbai se likha hai: "aage barhne ke liye peeche hatna ka formula hum ne aap se hi seekha hai, Maulana. jazak Allah." Maulana, agla sawal kanpur se hai. athar shamsi sahib ne bheja hai. unhone likha hai: "Maulana, any emotion management requires wisdom,