Emotion management and lack of wisdom

jazak Allah." Maulana, agla sawal kanpur se hai. athar shamsi sahib ne bheja hai. unhone likha hai: "Maulana, any emotion management requires wisdom, but wisdom comes with a long process of de conditioning, as you have always been telling us through your lectures and books. but in a controversy situation, most of the people who react are ordinary people with no wisdom. so my question is: how can a situation at a mass level be managed during controversy? where is the ho

p?" dekhiye, main aap ko ek ek qissa batata hoon. hazrat umar jab khalifa thay, hazrat umar jab khalifa thay to ek aadmi un ke ghar par us se milne ke liye gaye. to wahan jo aadmi tha, bahar waiter ke taur par, aadmi ne us se kaha ke mujhe umar se milna hai. to us ne kaha ke umar to us waqt so rahe hain.

to woh aadmi baith gaya, baatein hone lagi. to baatein karte hue unhone poocha ke tum umar ke saath rehte ho, batao ke umar ke baray mein tumhari kya rai hai? to us aadmi ne kaha ke umar bohat achhe aadmi hain, bohat ziyada achhe aadmi hain, lekin jab unhein ghussa aa jata hai to woh bohat sakht ho jatay hain. to us aadmi ne kaha ke is ka bohat simple formula main tumhein batata hoon.

us ne kaha ke kya? us ne kaha ke bas quran ki koi ayat parh do, jab ghussa aaye un ko to quran ki koi ayat parh do, bas woh chup ho jayenge. umar usi waqt chup ho jayenge. to masla yeh umar ki baat nahi hai, yeh momin ki baat hai. har momin ke andar yeh mizaj hona chahiye ke jab quran ki koi ayat parh di jaye to sunnay wala bilkul khamosh ho jaye.

to aisi society banaiye, aisa ghar banaiye, aisi family banaiye ke log quran ki ayat parh kar chup ho jaya karen. yani ghussa ka mamla pesh aane se pehle logon ko train kijiye, apne ghar ko, apne samaj ko. inshallah yeh bohat zabardast sabit hoga. Maulana, agla sawal lete hain. yeh sawal Pakistan se bheja hai, Pakistan Lahore se bheja hai, mubashir ali sahib ne. unhone likha hai: "Maulana sahib, i have recently started following you.