Overcoming Disappointments After Failures

maulana, agla sawal miss rutaba hussain ne kiya hai. unhon ne location nahi likhi hai. un ka sawal hai ke "How can we overcome disappointments after failures؟" is ke baray mein batayein. sirf ek, sirf ek shart hai. doosre ko blame dena chhod dijiye. hamesha apne ko blame dijiye. doosre ko blame dena ek dam hi chhod dijiye. main to allah ke fazl se misalein de sakta hoon ke kis tarah maine is ko chhora.

koi khula khula case mere paas aisa tha jis mein doosre ko blame diya karta tha. main pehle is ko chhora, bilkul apne ko blame dena shuru kar diya. yeh yeh koi mujh se mile to main bataoon ga ke kaise maine aisa kiya. to ek hi cheez number one hai mere nazdeek ke aap apne ko blame dena seekhein. is art ko seekhein. apne ko blame dena. ghalti apni hoti hai. aap ko main bataoon ke bohat pehle nawjowani ki umar mein maine ek mazmoon likha tha. ek parcha nikalta tha us zamane mein. uska naam tha "Ismat Ismat Ismat".

is mein likha tha main ne mazmoon. to is ka unwaan tha "hum ilzaam un ko dete thay, qusoor apna nikal aaya". yeh naujawani ki umar mein likha tha aur yeh mazmoon. aur chupa tha "ismat mein hum ilzaam un ko dete thay, qusoor apna nikal aaya". yeh meri awwal jawani ki discovery thi ke qusoor hota hai apna, blame deta hai doosre ko. abhi bhi kahin chupa hua maujood hoga yeh. kyunke main apne aik aik aik satr ko, aik aik safhe ko mehfooz rakhta tha. meri aadat thi. hum ilzaam un ko dete thay, qusoor apna nikal aaya. tanhaiyon mein is is line ko parhta tha aksar.

hum ilzaam un ko dete thay, qusoor apna nikal aaya. bas is art ko seekhiye. apni ghalti ko manna, us ka sahass paida kijiye. bas sab kuch theek ho jaye ga. Maulana Idrees Ahmed sahib ne Ahmedabad se sawal bheja hai. unhon ne likha hai, "Maulana, complaint comes naturally when we experience failure, negative reaction aur when something wrong happens.