How to become complaint-free
“Maulana, complaint comes naturally when we experience failure, negative reaction and when something wrong happens. My question is, how can we become hundred percent complaint free? It is so difficult. I try but fail even reminding myself that God does not want me to be a complaining person.”Asked by ادریس احمد, احمد آباد
He answers at 57:17 in Modern Age · 3 min 50 sec
57:17bas sab kuch theek ho jaye ga. Maulana Idrees Ahmed sahib ne Ahmedabad se sawal bheja hai. unhon ne likha hai, "Maulana, complaint comes naturally when we experience failure, negative reaction aur when something wrong happens. My question is, how can we become hundred percent complaint free؟ It is so difficult۔ I try but fail even reminding myself that God does not want me to be a complaining person۔ But still negative thoughts come۔ I feel helpless when I can't manage my negativity۔ Please advise me, Maulana, how to manage myself and that I become a hundred percent complaint free person." dekhiye,
58:10main aap ko kahoon ga ke apne aap ko is soch se jagaiye ke aap ki thinking right thinking hai. main apne baray mein keh sakta hoon ke jo log mere saath rehte hain, aap un sab se interview kijiye aur poochein mere baray mein ke main complaint free hoon ke nahi hoon. bari bari baatein mere khilaf hoti hain, bari bari baatein, lekin woh us ko shikayat ke khane mein nahi dalta. us ko manage karta hoon, manage karta hoon. aik aadmi agar aisa kar sakta hai to sab aadmi kar sakte hain.
59:02yeh usool hai ke agar aik aadmi shikayat free jee sakta hai to sab log shikayat free jee sakte hain. kya mushkil hai؟ to excuse dena chhod dijiye. mera maqola hai ke "If you are good excuse, don't use it۔" Excuse dena chhod dijiye. bas har cheez apni apni durust ho jaye gi. sare log kahin na kahin excuse liye rehte hain. sare log kahin na kahin excuse liye rehte hain.
59:40to excuse dena bilkul chhod dijiye. "If you are good excuse, don't use it۔" yeh main kehta hoon. "If you have good excuse, don't use it۔" us ko pakad li jiye, is formula ko, aur phir dekhein ke aap ki dunya kitni mukhtalif ho gayi aap ke liye. dunya aap ke liye kitni zyada mukhtalif ho gayi hai. Okay, we will end today's session. Thank you.