منفی کو مثبت میں بدلنے کا طریقہ

agla sawal tamil nadu se mister farah ahmed ka hai. unhon ne likha hai: "maulana, negative ko positive mein badalne ka method kya hai? is ke baray mein batayen." is ka method hai muhasba. muhasba ko angrezi mein kehte hain: "introspection". bas aur kuch nahi. jitna zyada aap apne soch ko develop karenge, utne zyada aap is qabil ho jayenge ke aap

negative ko positive mein badal len. ab is ki misaal mein deta hoon aap ko ke ke abhi ek sahab ne mujhe ek parcha diya, us mein mere khilaf bohat hi ghalat tareeqe se mere upar tanqeed ki gayi thi. bohat hi lagho jhooti, matlab bilkul be asal jhoot mere baray mein. to zahir hai fitri baat hai ke aadmi ko ghussa aata hai, rasool allah ke upar ghussa aaya.

rishta ghaab ho to waqti tor par mujhe ek jhatka laga ke kaise log hain ke jhooti baat chhapte hain aur phailate hain is ko. lekin jab mera ghussa jo hai nafrat ke had ko chhoone laga to phir woh chaukana ho gaya. dekhiye, ek hai ghazab, ek hai nafrat. donon farq yaad rakhiye. ghazab ka matlab yeh nahi ke mutnaffiq ho gaya. rasool allah ke baray mein yeh to aata hai ke rasool allah ghusse mein aa gaye. yeh nahi aata ke rasool allah nafrat karne lagen. yeh nahi aata hein. to jab mujhe ghussa aaya to ghussa dheere dheere wahan tak pahunchne laga jahan nafrat shuru hoti hai.

jahan se achaanak mein is ke baad chaukana ho gaya ke chaukana ho gaya ke woh aadmi to chhap kar ke kahin baitha hua hai aur mein yahan kyun nafrat karoon is apne apne ko yani apni positivity ko khatam karoon yani khud apne ko koi nuqsan pahunchaun. to fiur mein ne ghussa bhi khatam kar diya aur negativity bhi khatam kar di. to soch ka matlab yeh hai ke aap yeh jab yeh soch payen ke negative banna apne hi ko halak karna hai, yeh self killing hai. yani aap jab negative bante hain kisi ke khilaf to doosre ko kuch nahi bigadte, aap doosre ko koi nuqsan nahi pahunchate, aap aap khud apna nuqsan karte hain.

aap soch lijiyay, koi bhi shakhs soche kya is ki nafrat se kisi doosray ko kuch bigar gaya to jab mein doosray ko bigar nahin sakta to aap apna nuqsan kyon karoon, apnay ko halak kyon karoon? kyunkay nafrat aayi to farishtay chalay gay. nafrat aayi to Allah ka ilham aap par nahin utray ga. nafrat aayi to Allah ki rehmat aap se door chali jaye gi. to yeh sochiye aap ke nafrat ka nuqsan doosray ko to nahin puhanchay ga, aap ko puhanch jaye ga. jitna ziyada aap is ko sochengay, utnay ziyada aap nafrat se door hotay chalay jayengay. isi ka naam hai muhasba, isi ka naam hai introspection. to mein samajhta hoon ke koi bhi aur tadbeer is ke nahin siwaye is ke ke aap muhasba karen, introspection karen, rethinking karen,

apnay baray mein sochen. to aik second mein aap yani negative thinking ko khatam kar den gay aur positive thinking ko apna len gay. Maulana, agla sawal aaya hai Doha Qatar se Maulana Abdul Basit Umri ka. unhon nay likha hai: "Maulana, aaj aap ki taqreer se pehli baar yeh samajh mein aaya ke Islam mein dakhil hona jannat mein dakhlay ki guarantee nahin, woh sirf achhay kaam ki qabooliyat ki shart hai aur jannat musalsal naik amal kartay rehnay se milti hai,