Importance of patience and gratitude

maulana aksar woh big bird of the storm ka example bhi diya karte thay. apa, agla sawal lene se pehle comment parhna chahoon ga jo shafiq rehman sahib ne bheja hai pakistan se. unhon ne likha hai "I am from Pakistan and really appreciate your efforts. May Allah bless us." alhamdulillah. apa, agla sawal basically mein sabr o shukr ke hawalay se poochna chahta hoon. maulana yeh kehte thay ke sabr o shukr agar yeh do sifat insaan ke andar hon to kaamyaabi yaqeenan us ko haasil ho sakti hai. matlab woh apni nakaami ko kaamyaabi mein tabdeel kar sakta hai.

to in do ke beech mein kya relation hai? is ko thora aur achay se aap wazeh kar dein. jab bhi hum kisi mushkil haalaat mein par jayen to quran ki taleem ke mutabiq hamein sabr karna hai. kyunke sabr ki wajah se kya hota hai ke hamare andar negativity nahin paida hogi. balkay hum sirf yeh sochen ge ke is maslay ka hal kya hai. aur hal aik nahin, das hal hotay hain. to is maslay ka ha l kya hai, woh hum positive andaaz mein soch payein ge. aur agar hum ne is ko shikayat ke andaaz mein liya to hum bohat ziyada negative ho jayen ge.

to phir hamara dimagh jo hai, sahi right direction mein kaam hi nahin kare ga. to hum badla lena chahein ge. badla lene mein hum aur apna nuqsan karein ge. to is wajah se hum bilkul positive ho kar hi kaam kar sakte hain. maulana hamesha kehte thay ke agar hum koi waisi baat un ko batate, kisi ki shikayat ki baat batate ji to woh suntay hi nahin thay. kehte thay ke main aik moment ke liye bhi apne andar aik state mein shukr ki state of feeling mein jeeta hoon.

aur aik moment ke liye bhi main shukr ka erosion nahin chahta. kyunke jahan shikayat aayi to wahan shukr ka erosion ho jaye ga. to shukr jo hai, matlab agar hum aik shakir zindagi hamari hai, tabhi hamare paas farishtay atay hain. tabhi hamein khuda ki madad milti hai. aur is ka bohat achi misaal hai hazrat abubakar wali ji ke kis tareeqay se jab unhon ne shikayat, unhon ne jawab dena shuru kiya to rasool Allah sal Allah alayh wasallam ne bataya ke farishta chala gaya. to is se hamare liye bhi is mein sabaq hai ke hum aik positive life jayen ge to hamare paas farishtay ayen ge. farishtoon ki madad se hum apna har kaam kar sakte hain.

to shukr aur shikayat jama nahin ho sakte. agar hamare andar shikayat hai to hamare andar shukr nahin hoga. aur shukr hai to hamare andar shikayat nahin hogi. to is tareeqay se jaise hamare andar shikayat aaye, usi waqt hum ko is ko de din khatam kar dena hai. kyunke agar hum ne shikayat ko apne dimagh mein rakha to jab hum soyen ge to phir woh hamare dimagh ka hissa ban jaye ga. phir hum usi ke is mein sochte rahen ge, usi ke asar mein rahen ge. to hum usi waqt khatam kar lein. kisi bhi tareeqay se is ko explain kar lein ke is mein kabhi kabhi aisa bhi ho sakta hai ke hamari bhi kuch ghalti rahi ho. to is ko explain kar ke woh dimagh se nikaal dein. aur khuda ki doosri jo blessings hain, us ko yaad karein.

to is tareeqay se shikayat ko kabhi bhi hamein apne dimagh mein rakhna nahin hai. dimagh mein rakhen ge to hamare andar aik negative personality banay gi. negative personality banay gi to hamare andar shukr nahin paida hoga. sacha shukr ko main keh rahi hoon. woh alhamdulillah wala to shukr, woh to sabhi log kar rahay hain. jo sacha shukr hai, jis se poori hamari personality influence hoti hai, woh shukr nahin paida hoga. is liye hamein shikayat ko foran khatm kar dena hai.

ji, kafi logon ne bohat se comments bheje hain. apa, miss asma khanam ne saharanpur se likha hai: "beshak bilkul sahi kaha." apa, jazak allah. noreen zahid sahibah ne bheja hai, unhon ne location hi likhi hai: "subhan allah, bohat sabak amoaz baatein batai hain." jazak allah. miss karot lane ne srinagar se likha hai: "This world is a custom-based world. maulana would always say it implies that god has created a world that caters to all needs of human beings. that we have become used to this world and take everything for granted is the irony.

if helplessness is the surest way to find god, gratefulness is the key to realize god . pondering on the creations of creator, all the blessings and opportunities available, and acknowledging his greatness and benevolence is what god expects from us." achha, apa, quran mein aaya hai ke agar koi nashukra hai to us ko saza di jaye gi aur agar jo shukr karne wala hai, us ko reward diya jaye ga. to is ko bhi thora aur aap achhe se wazeh kar dein.

quran mein chapter 14 mein aaya hai ke agar tum nashukri karoge to mera azab bara sakht hai. is se hamein maloom hota hai ke nashukri jo hai, kitni bari evil hai, jis se hamein apne aap ko har halat mein bachana hai. aur aaj har aadmi jo hai, jo hai sahi maene mein koi bhi shukr khuda ka ada nahi kar raha hai. kyun ke bohat sari aisi cheezein hain jo hamein nahi mili hui hain. bas isi mein ghoom phir kar hamara dimagh isi mein rehta hai. to is tareeqe se hamein quran ki is ayat se hamein yeh learning karni hai ke hamein har halat mein khuda ka shukr ada karna hai.

kyun ke agar hum ne khuda ka shukr nahi ada kiya to hamein hamein jannat se mahroom kar diya jaye ga. abdalabad tak hum, hum aik jis ko maulana kehte thay, jahannum jo hai, aik universal dust bin hai, wahan pare rahen ge aur hamein jannat se mahroom kar diya jaye ga. quran ke mutabiq yeh baat hai. aur agar hum shukr ada karte hain to allah taala jo hai la in shakartum la zi dannakum ka matlab hai ke dunya mein bhi allah aur de ga aur akhirat mein is ka reward jo hai, woh jannat hai. to yeh bohat hi bari quran ki bohat hi important aayatein hain aur is ko hamein hamesha yaad rakhna chahiye ke nashukri hum ko jahannum tak le ja sakti hai aur shukr hum ko jannat tak le jaye ga.

to is ke baray mein hamein bohat ziyada serious hona hai. ji, miss sarah aman ne apa comment bheja hai ke "Gratitude is the best form of communication with Almighty Allah." tariq badar sahib ne lahore se likha hai: "In Pakistan, most of the people are engaged in politics, which made them very negative. what is your advice in this regard?" to apa, is ke baray mein aap kya kehna chahen gi? dekhiye, islam ke mutabiq, quran ke mutabiq, politics jo hai, power hai, political power hai, woh khuda ke dene se milta hai.

hum log kya kar rahe hain? ke is ke liye tehreekein chalate hain. jo doosre log power par hain, un ko un seat karne ki tehreekein chalate hain. aur is ki wajah se itni ziyada negativity hoti hai ke poori ki poori population negative ho jati hai. tamam log is ke khilaf ho jatay hain. dunya jo hai, do dharon mein bat jati hai. aik rival group hota hai, tamam log is ke khilaf ho jatay hain. to yeh bilkul galat hai, total sense mein galat hai.

kyunke jo hamein kaam karna hai, woh tazkiya-e-nafs ka karna hai. apne andar hamein positive personality develop karni hai. kyunke jab Allah taala dekhenge ke hamare andar salahiyat paida ho gayi hai hukumat sambhalne ki, tabhi hum ko Allah power dega. to yeh power Allah ke dene se milta hai. to aap log Allah ki jurisdiction mein dakhil hone ki koshish na karein. kyunke is se milega kuch nahi, siwaye apne aap ko, apni apni barbadi ke siwa aur kuch nahi milne wala hai. to hamein jo kya karna hai? ke sirf apni positive personality banani hai.

har tarah se jo Allah taala ke hukum ke mutabiq ek duniya mein ek zindagi guzarni hai. aur politics jo hai, woh yeh hai ke jaise zakat hai, jo yeh jo hukum hai, quran mein chand chand aayatein hain to politics ke bare mein to bilkul zakat ki tarah hai. agar hamare paas paisa hai to hamare upar zakat farz hai. paisa nahi hai to hamare upar zakat farz nahi hai. to bilkul wahi hai ke agar hum hum ko power mila hua hai aur jo Allah ke dene se milta hai, agar mila hua hai to hum ko Allah ki marzi ke mutabiq, yaani khaas taur par justice ke mutabiq, is duniya mein rule karna hai, hukumat chalani hai.

to yeh hai. aur jo hai baqi jo hamara kaam hai, woh hai ek ek mustaqil, ek shukr wali zindagi guzarna hai. aur jahan hum ne politics mein qadam rakha, foran hum nashukre ho jate hain. kyunke power kisi aur ke paas hai aur woh kyun hamein de dega power? phir hamein is se ladna padega. aur musalsal ek tehreek chalani padegi. negativity is mein paida hoti hai, bahut zyada negativity paida hoti hai. hamesha ke liye log do group mein bat jate hain. to is tarah se hamari poori personality negative ho jati hai.

to hamein yeh chahiye ke jo kuch hamein mila hua hai, us ke mutabiq hum Allah ki marzi ke mutabiq zindagi guzarein. jo kuch mila hua hai. to jo nahi mila hua hai, woh jab hamein agar zaroorat Allah taala samjhenge to Allah taala hamein de denge. jab de denge, us waqt hamara farz banega ke hum justice ke mutabiq hukumat karein. to yeh hai. kyunke asal mein masla yeh hai ke logon ko yahi nahi pata ke creation plan Khuda ka kya hai. Khuda ka jo creation plan hai ke is duniya mein hum test ke liye aaye hain aur test ka paper khud Khuda set kiya hua hai. isi liye hum dekhte hain ke har ek ko alag alag test paper diye gaye hain.

ab hum chahein ke doosre ka test paper chheen kar us ko hum apna test paper banayein to yeh yeh mumkin nahi hai. jo test paper hamein mila hua hai, usi ko hamein achhe tarike se is is is par kaam karna hai, is par amal karna hai taake hum Khuda ki marzi ke mutabiq ek zindagi is duniya mein guzarein. warna hamari sari zindagi guzar jaye gi doosron ke khilaf ukheer pachar karne mein. aur hamein jo karna hai, apna tazkiya-e-nafs, asal kaam tazkiya-e-nafs hai. jo hamein karna hai, wahi nahi hum kar payenge. to yeh bilkul galat baat hai aur hum yeh Khuda ke creation plan ke khilaf hain. apa, bahut se achhe comment aa rahe hain.

Shah Khalid sahib ne likha hai: "Listening from Islamabad. Mashallah, very nice talk. Allah taala Farida apa ki umar mein barkat ata farmaye. Noor ul and Zia ne likha hai: "Mashallah, very motivating talk. I have started listening to Maulana Wahiduddin Khan since January, and my whole thinking and learning has changed. Alhamdulillah, I have discovered CPS team, and I mean it, because I am being practical after listening to all of Maulana lectures. Shah Zaman Hassan sahib ne likha hai: "मैं भी एक नेगेटिव इंसान था, पर जब से مولانا जी से متاثر हुआ हूं, तब से पॉजिटिव रास्ते पर हूं। दुआ दुआ करें कि मैं लगा रहूं।"

Shahid Hussain sahib ne likha hai: "Problems are challenges. These are potential doors for opportunities. These can work as incentives. Great wisdom." Aapa, hona to yahi chahiye ke ek insaan ke seene mein shukr ka darya jo hai, woh beh pade. Kyunke Quran aur Hadees ke mutabiq, sab se bari ibadat jo hai, woh shukriya hai. To "It is said that it is the biggest worship." To "I would like you to comment on it." Asal mein shukr hamare andar, woh jo shukr hai, jo jis jis ko Maulana ne kaha hai ke shukr ka darya, shukr ka samandar

beh pade, to wahi hoga jab hum apne andar bilkul hi koi aisi cheez ki jagah na dein jo hamare shukr ka erosion kare. To jaise Maulana karte the ke koi aisi cheez dimaagh mein daalte hi nahi the jo unka shukr, shukr ka erosion kare. Unke khilaaf to logon ne itna likha, itna kitabein likhi gayi, articles likhe gaye. Is ko bohat itminaan se woh le kar ke apni almari mein woh kitaab laga dete the. Hum logon ko taajjub hota tha ke is se kuch bhi woh negative asar nahi lete the. Woh aaj bhi unki kitabon, almari mein woh kitabein lagi hui hain jo unke khilaaf bohat bure bhale tareeqe se likhi gayi hain. To is se unka kuch asar nahi hota tha.

Kyunke woh to itna zyada Khuda ke shukr mein jeete the ke saari duniya bhi bura bhala kahe to is se unko asar nahi hota tha. To aise hi hamein bhi karna hai ke hum dekhiye, jab hum khud ek shakir bande ki tarah rahenge na, tabhi farishte hamare paas aayenge. Ji ke is duniya mein dekhiye, do asraat hamare par padte hain: ek farishton ka asar aur doosre shaitan ka asar. To agar hum shukr karne wale hain to farishte hamare upar asar daalenge. Aur farishton ke asar se hamare andar woh positive person

ality banegi, hamare andar Khuda se ta'alluq qaim hoga. Kyunke Khuda se ta'alluq direct nahi qaim hota, balkeh hamein farishton ke zariye se qaim hota hai. Farishte woh asar hamare andar paida karte hain, hamare andar woh asar daalte hain. Kaha ek Hadees ke mutabiq: "Yahan par chaar angool bhi jagah aisi nahi jahan ek farishta Khuda ke aage sajda na kar raha ho." To inhi farishton se hamein qurbat hasil karni hai. Wahi hamare andar woh shukr wali personality ko develop karenge. To hum jo shukr ki personality develop nahi kar sakte, woh jo main reason hai, woh hamare andar hai: ego. Ego hamare andar itna zyada hota hai ke jahan kisi ne koi baat kahi, bas hum bhadak uthte hain. To agar hum apne ego ko khatm kar dein to hum kyun bhadkenge?

Jaise Maulana kehte the ke "Main apne aap ko chunti ke barabar bhi nahi samajh ta." Agar hum apne aap ko chunti ke barabar bhi nahi samjhein to koi hamein kitna bhi bura bhala kehta rahe, hum kyun kyun bhadkenge? Hum woh apna ego khatm karna hai. Kyunke do ego is kainat mein nahi chal sakte. Ego to asal Khuda ka ego hai na? To ek Hadees mein aaya hai ke "Jo mere kibr ki chadar ko lena chahega, main us ko zaleel kar doonga." To Khuda ka ego hai. Hamein jo kuch hai, woh Khuda ke dene se mila hua hai.

To hamein to hamara apna kuch hai hi nahi. To kis baat ka ego? Jo ek cheez jo hamein Khuda ne di hai, to mili hui hai. Aur jab chahe, woh Khuda hum se chheen sakta hai. To hamein is maqsad ke liye, apne jazba-e-shukr ki hifazat ke liye, apne ego ko khatm karna hai. Ego ko surrender karna hai. Islam ke maani hi yahi hain: "Submitting to God. Surrender to God ." To surrender ka matlab yahi hai: ego ko surrender karna. Aur sirf aur sirf Khuda ki baṛai mein jeena. Ji to Aapa samajh aa raha hai ke jannat ki qeemat shukr hai.

Aur jannat usi ko milegi jo is qeemat ko ada karega. Aur Quran mein bhi Aapa jannat ko le kar yeh zikr aaya hai ke "Tum jahan bhi dekhoge, azeem nem'at aur badshahi dek hoge." To yeh bohat zaroori ho jata hai Aapa ke hum apne andar yeh shukr ka ehsaas, shukr ke feeling ko safeguard kar ke hamesha chalein. to wo kaise kar sakte hain? is ke bare mein bhi bataein. to shukr ke safeguard karne ke liye wahi hai jo ke hum har halat mein Khuda ki barhai mein jaein. ji apni barhai ko khatam kar dein aur Khuda ki barhai mein jaein. phir shukriya shukr hai.

kyunke hamari hazaron lakhon cheezein hain jo hamare paas hain, wo Khuda se mili hui hain. phir hum kyun nahi shukr karein ge? jaise ek baar, ek baar maine ek car mein dekha, peeche likha hua tha: "Dad's gift." to ek cheez baap ne di, ab bete ko itna zyada is ka acknowledgement hua, us ne acknowledge itna zyada kiya ke us ne car pe hi likh diya: "Dad's gift." to yahan to har cheez Khuda se hamein mili hui hai. to hum Khuda ka shukr ada nahi karein to kis ka ada karein ge? aur baar baar Khuda dikha raha hai ke jab chahein hum cheen sakte hain. koi beemar ho jata hai, kisi ko maut aa jati hai, kisi ko accident ho jata hai, kisi ke paas ek cheez hoti hai, wo wo khatam ho jati hai, kisi ka job chala jata

hai. to Khuda ke dene se milta hai, Khuda ke lene se wo chala jata hai. to har halat mein hamein jo kuch hai, wo Khuda se mila hua hai. aur kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai ke Khuda kisi maslehat ki wajah se hum se koi cheez leta hai, to tab bhi hamein wo negative nahi hona hai. ho sakta hai ke Allah taala is se behtar dene ke liye hamein wo cheez Allah ne liya ho. to ek baar hamare ek rishtedar the, wo un ko fact, un ki apni company thi, us mein kuch problem hua, kuch jhagda ho gaya, to wo chhod kar company ko chale aae.

to bohat zyada wo negative ho rahe the ke "main ne company banai thi, sari mehnat maine ki thi, ab logon ne mujhe pareshan kiya, mujhe chhodna pada company ko. " to Maulana ne apni diary mein likha ke kabhi aisa hota hai ke mali jo hai, wo paudhe ko ek jagah se ukhadta hai, us ko kisi doosri behtar jagah lagane ke liye, nasb karne ke liye. to wahi hua, wo phir wo bahar chale gaye, aur bahar unhon ne is se bohat zyada bada business kiya. to waqti taur par aisa ho sakta hai ke hamein kuch problem ho jaye, kuch takleef ho jaye, to is se bhi hamein negative nahi hona hai. kyunke ho sakta hai ke Allah taala ke liye hamare, hum Allah taala ke haan, hamare liye koi zyada bada plan ho.

abhi jo hum program kar ho raha tha Hazrat Yusuf par ke Hazrat Yusuf ko jab kunwein mein daal diya gaya tha, to wo us waqt unhon ne thodi socha hoga ke kal wo wahan badshah ke, badshah ke takht ke baad un ki doosri jagah milegi un ko. to Allah taala ke paas kisi cheez ki kami nahi hai, bas hamein shukr karna hai aur Khuda se dua karni hai, to wo sab kuch hamein aur mazeed mil jayega. ji apa, aakhri sawal poochne se pehle do comments parhna chahunga. ye bohat hi pyare comments hain. Sadia Ajmal sahiba ne likha hai: "Mashاءاللہ, listening from Islamabad.