Admitting Mistakes Before the Opposite Party
“Moulana, many people feel that admitting one mistake would make them smaller in front of the opposite party. This may make the opposite party misuse the situation to his or her advantage.”Asked by Tahir Saeed, Lucknow
He answers at 52:33 in Dars-e-Quran, Chapter 2, Verse 37 · 1 min 54 sec
52:33maulana, agla sawal bheja hai tahir saeed sahib ne lucknow se, unhon ne likha hai: "maulana, many people feel that admitting one's mistake would make them smaller in front of the opposite party. This may make the opposite party misuse the situation to his or her advantage. so is it not better that we say i was wrong in our heart and then do not
53:06repeat the mistake ever? if we say i was wrong aloud, then the opposite party may exploit the situation." nahi, bilkul yeh bilkul khali baat hai. puri history mein aisa kabhi hua nahi. dekhiye, yahan log apni woe ko jante hain, yeh woe ki language hai jo aap bol rahe hain,
53:31aur law of nature ko nahi jante. law of nature jo hai, us ke andar ek cheez hai jis ko kehte hain conscious. insan ka personality ka ek bohat hi important part hai conscious. تو جیسے ہی فریق دوسری پارٹی یہ کہہ دے: "I was wrong
53:55", to conscious ko moqa mil jata hai kaam karne ka. yani conscious jaag parta hai, aur jab conscious jaag pare to us ke baad submission ata hai, modesty aati hai, acknowledge karna aata hai. yeh to law of nature hai.
54:17jo log nahi jante is ko, woh aisi baatein karte hain. law of nature supreme hai, hamari will supreme nahi hai. مولانا، اگلا سوال کشمیر سے عامر موری صاحب نے بھیجا ہے، انہوں نے لکھا ہے: "We have learned