Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

How to become positive after bad experiences

“Maulana, my question is how can we make experience learning oriented? We often see that people who have bad experiences become negative. So how can we become positive?”Asked by Fuwad, Moradabad

He answers at 28:05 in The Purpose of Life · 1 min 46 sec

His answer, in his own words
28:05
maulana ab sawal lete hain ah yeh sawal bheja hai fawad sahab ne moradabad se unhone likha hai maulana sahab my question is that how can we make our experience learning oriented We often say that people who have bad experiences become negative, so how can we become positive or take positive lessons from daily negative experiences.
28:40
dekhiye sari learning ke liye jo condition hai woh sirf ek hi hai apne aap ko negative thin se bachana. Aur yeh sab se zyada asan baat hai ke kyunke by birth har aadmi positive thinker hi hai. By birth har aadmi positive thinker hi hai. Jab aap negative thinking mein jate hain to aap deviate karte hain. To aap ko koi cheez create nahi karna hai sirf use bachana hai ke aap deviate na karein main samajhta hoon ke yeh to bohat asaan baat hai is se zyada asaan baat kahan ho sakti hai apni nature ko preserve rakhein apni nature ko
29:35
jis par Allah ne paida kiya aap ko us ko bachayein. to yeh to already jo aap ki personality hai usi ko bachane ka mamla hai. to deviation se bachaiye aur sab kuch aap ko milta rahega. Maulana agla sawal Chennai se bheja hai Maulana Iqbal Umri ne unhone likha hai Maulana dunya ki madi taabeer aur maanvi taabeer mein farq kaise karein aur is ke mutabiq hamara kya role mumkin hai is ko wazeh karein. Dekhein
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