Choosing between rich and educated husband
“My father wants me to marry a rich husband, but I want to marry an educated husband. Please advise me what is important to make a marriage successful.”Asked by Miss Shaheen, Mumbai
He answers at 1:06:03 in Revival of Islam · 2 min 45 sec
1:06:03is se apne ko bachaiye. Maulana, agla sawal Miss Shaheen ka hai, Mumbai se. unhon ne likha hai: "Moulana sahib, my father wants me to marry a rich husband, whereas I want to marry an educated husband. Please advise me what is important to make a marriage successful." dekhiye, yeh koi criterion nahi hai. yani aaj ka rich kal ka poor ho jata hai. educated log jo hain, woh har qism ke evil phailate hain. to yeh koi criterion nahi hai. criterion yeh hai ke aadmi ke andar wisdom ho.
1:06:54wisdom ki importance hai. importance wisdom ki hai, na rich hone ki, na educated hone ki. history mein aap dekhiye, sare jo evil hain, phailaye kis ne? jo educated log the. sare evil educated logon ne phailaye hain. aur rich dekhiye, aap bhi. America mein ek aadmi is ke pas aath so billion, yeh kitna paisa tha is ke pas? million. is ne suicide kar liya is ne. abhi this is through the suicide kar liya. aur bohat paisa is ke pas tha. to yeh koi criterion nahi hai.
1:07:33asal cheez hai wisdom. wisdom marriage life mein bhi kaam ati hai, job mein bhi kaam ati hai, aur business mein. har jagah wisdom kaam ati hai. ghar ki life, society ki life, aur job, workplace, business. har jagah jo kaam ati hai, wisdom. to is mamle ko aap detail waghera samajhna chahen to hamari kuch kitaben parhiye. English mein do kitaben hain: "Simple Wisdom" aur "Moral Vision".
1:08:13Urdu mein char kitaben hain: "Raja Hayat", "Tameer Hayat", "Rehnuma Hayat", "Kitab Zindagi". to aap yeh is se bilkul is ko irrelevant samjhiye. koi matlab is ko zindagi ke success se nahi hai. na education ki ahmiyat koi hai, na rich hone ki ahmiyat koi hai. ahmiyat jo hai, wisdom ki hai. to aap in kitabon ko parhiye. is se inshallah aap ko is ka, yani is answer ka, is is question ka answer mil jaye ga.
1:08:49Maulana, agla sawal lene se pehle ek comment parhna chahen ge jo Doha, Qatar se Maulana Abdul Basit Omri ne bheja hai.