Pruning habits making life dull
“Maulana, abandoning bad habits is understandable, but pruning every habit, many of which may not be wrong or unlawful, may make life very dull and devoid of any interest. What is your take on this?”Asked by اشر, بریلی
He answers at 46:11 in Self Correction · 3 min 22 sec
46:11Maulana, yeh sawal Ashar sahib ka aaya hai Bareilly se, aur unhon ne likha hai: "Molana, abandoning bad habits is understandable, but pruning every habit, many of which may not be wrong or unlawful, may make life very dull and devoid of any interest. What is your take on this?" " kafi arsa parhi hai. "Molana, abandoning bad habits is understandable, but pruning every habit, many of which may not be wrong or unlawful, may make life very dull and devoid of any interest. What is your take on this?" "Bhai, dekhiye, is mein koi misaal toh di nahi unhon ne. Misaal chahiye. Mera tajurba yeh hai ke koi bhi cheez, bator aadat agar karenge aap, bazahir acha kaam, tab
47:07bhi woh aap ko barbaad karega. Bazahir acha kaam, woh bhi barbaad karega. Jaise maine arz kiya ke hamare zamane mein shair o shayari ek acha kaam samjhi jaati thi. Sab log shair o shayari karte the.
47:28Achhe achhe ulama shair o shayari karte the. Toh woh toh acha tha, lekin maine mehsoos kiya ke shair o shayari agar koi aadat ban jaayegi toh woh tabaahi hai. Aisi study acha kaam hai, lekin bator asar ke liye jab study aadat ban gayi toh uska
47:49sochne ka amal hi ruk gaya. Toh bas samajhta hoon ke is mein mere tajurbe ke mutabiq har aadat, har aadat hi bator aadat hai. Aadat ke taur par koi kaam nahi karna hai humein. Humein har kaam ko shauq ke taur par karna hai.
48:10har kaam ko hamein shor ke taur par karna hai. mera apna tajurba yahi hai. agar koi aadmi misaal bataye mujhe to main is mein mazeed wazahat kar sakta hoon. main apni zindagi mein kai cheezein chhori hain, jaise main ne arz kiya ke meetha khana to meetha
48:30khana to koi buri baat nahi hai. kai log samajhte hain ke meetha khana sunnat hai, lekin main ne mehsoos kiya ke meetha jo hai, jab meri aadat banne laga to isi mein mashghool ho kar mera sochne ka amal, mera jo sochne ka amal hai, woh rukne laga.
48:51jab tak main meetha kha raha hoon to sochne ka amal ruka hua hai. bas test le raha hoon, test le raha hoon, test le raha hoon. to mera apna tajurba yahi hai ke har aadat hi tamkeen hai. koi is aitbaar se ke woh haram hai, maslan alcohol haram hai, haram ke maani mein woh tamkeen
49:12hai, lekin kuch cheezein zindagi mein jo main is ko kehta hoon ghair mehram haram, yaani mehram, yaani haram na ho kar bhi woh tamkeen hai. yeh mera tajurba yahi hai. agar koi misaal batayega to main inshallah mazeed wazahat karunga.
49:33maulana, agla sawal mumbai se aaya hai miss yasmeen ka, aur unhone aap se poocha hai ke