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Ethics & Character · Q&A

Role of silence when angry

“What role does silence play when one is angry? Many people think if you keep patience or observe silence, then the opposite party may feel that they have succeeded over you. This may lead to further exploitation. What is your advice?”Asked by Farhan, Bhopal

He answers at 1:17:15 in Self Correction · 2 min 46 sec

His answer, in his own words
1:17:15
maulana, agla sawal bhopal se aaya hai farhan sahib ka, aur unhon ne likha hai ke Maulana, what role does silence play when one is angry? Many people think if you keep patience or observe silence, then the opposite party may feel that they have succeeded over you. This may lead to further exploitation. What is your advice? is se zyada jhooti baat aur koi bhi nahi.
1:17:49
isi jhoot mein musalman jee rahe hain, sari dunya ke musalman isi mein jee rahe hain, aur nateeja nahi dekh rahe, nateeja kiya nikal raha hai? Tabaahi mein izafa, tabaahi mein izafa. yeh nahi ke koi sochta hai, yaani musalman yahi to kar rahe hain ke chup rehne ko tayyar nahi hain. to nateeja kiya nikalta hai? Woh yaani in terms of result, is ko jaiza len.
1:18:11
is ka kaisi ajeeb o ghareeb baat hai ke chup na rehne ki policy mein chal rahe hain musalman, aur tabaah ho rahe hain har jagah. kaisi ajeeb baat hai ke musalmanon ke andar, yaani apna revise karne ka maada khatam ho gaya, re aisment ka maada khatm ho gaya.
1:18:33
har jagah yahi to ho raha hai. falasteen mein aap dekhiye ke chup ho gaye, woh chup nahi hain. woh lekin kya hota hai? yeh pathar maarte hain, woh bam maarta hai. yeh india mein aap dekh lijiyey, yeh fasaad hote hain, isi mein hote hain ke musalman chup nahi
1:18:55
rehte, action lete hain. to chup na rehne ki qeemat musalman do so saal se bhi ada kar rahe hain, aur abhi tak un ke andar re-aisment nahi aaya. har jagah jitne fasaadaat hain, aur jitne bhi duniya mein, jahan jis ko kehte hain ke hamare sath
1:19:17
zulm ho raha hai, har kahin bhi musalman chup nahi hain. har jagah, yani apna chala rahe hain. to kam az kam ab to sochein, ab to tajurba karein chup rehne ka. yani chup rehne ka tajurba hi nahi kiya musalmanon ne.
1:19:39
aur sawal karte hain, hamare mashriq mein pehli baar chup rehne ka tajurba kiya gaya hai, aur Allah ke fazal se is se bohat faiday hue hain. hamare mashriq ke baad koi hai hi nahi jis ne chup rehne ka tajurba kiya ho do so saal mein. to yeh sab sawal to mujhe bohat ajeeb maloom hote hain.
1:20:01
maulana, agla sawal pensilvaniya, USA se khawaja kaleemuddin sahib ne kiya hai, aur unhon ne
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