Formula for complaint-free culture in mission

Maulana, agla sawal kya hai Miss Naghma Siddiqui ne Delhi se, aur unhon ne aap se poocha hai ke what is the formula of a complaint free culture in a mission? formula to banta ji, self management. kabhi bhi agar aap discussion karenge aur pooch gach karenge to kuch hone wala nahi hai, kabhi nahi ho sakta. pooch gach jahan hoga, jahan discussion kiya jaye ga, yani cheezon par charcha kiya jaye ga, wahan complaint free mahol ban nahi sakta hai. complaint free mahol banega jab ke aap self management aap ke andar ho, khud hi khud is ko diffuse kar len, khud hi khud.

jaise maine ek misaal is se pehle mein bata chuka hoon aap ko ke Hazrat Khalid jo the, un ko Khalifa Umar ne mazool kar diya, yani mazool karne ke maani yeh the ke woh general the, general, is ko soldier bana diya, mamooli soldier bana diya. to ek shakliya hai ke ja kar pooch gach karte, woh ke kaise bana diya aap ne, kaun si bari ghalati thi? pooch gach karte aur sathiyon ko jama karte, sathiyon mein charcha karte ke dekho. lekin unhon ne yeh nahi kiya, khud hi khud manage kar liya is ko. unhon ne kaha hai ke unhon ne keh diya ke in inni la qatil fi sabil Umar, wa la qatil fi sabil Rabb Umar. mein jo kuch kar raha tha, woh woh woh Umar ke liye thori kar raha tha, Allah ke liye kar raha hoon.

to mera mera taluq Allah se hai, kisi Khalifa se nahi hai. bas baat khatam ho gayi. to jis samaj mein logon ke andar pooch gach ka mizaj ho aur discussion ka mizaj ho, shikayaton par shikayaton ko le le kar is ki chhan been karen, woh samaj kabhi bhi aaj positive samaj nahi ban sakta, kyun ke shikayaton ke itne zyada shakh dar shakh hote hain, woh kabhi khatam hi nahi honge. shikayat se zyada buri cheez mujhe nahi maloom. mera apna jo deen hai, woh yeh ke shikayat is se zyada buri cheez hai ke aap sharab piyen, khizr gosht khayen. aap khizr gosht khayen to choti burai hai, aur shikayat dil mein li hai, woh bari burai hai. mera apna jo mutala hai deen ka, mein shikayat ko super haram samajhta hoon,

aur is ka ilaaj yahi samajhta hoon ke self management khud hi khud is ko soch lijiye, khud hi khud khatam kar do. koi pooch gachh nahin, koi pooch gachh nahin ke aap kisi ko ja kar milein, telephone karein, khat likhein, yeh sab kuch hota hua nahin, hota nahin, kuch nahin hone wala. kyunke shikayaton ko itne shakh dar shakh is ke itne pehlu hote hain ke koi kuch bhi kahe ga, aap ki shikayat khatam nahin hogi. kisi bhi wazahat se aap ki shikayat khatam nahin hogi. shikayat aap khud ya to khatam karein ge ya kabhi khatam hi nahin hogi. shikayat yeh meri zindagi ke barq ka tajruba hai ke shikayat ko ya to ya to aadmi khud kill karta hai ya hamesha shikayat jeeta hai, isi mein mar jata hai. woh

is ko phir sun lijiye aap ke quran o hadith ka mutala, zindagi ka tajruba dono se maine yeh samjha hai ke shikayat jo hai, aisi buri cheez hai ke agar aadmi khud khat ko khatam kare to khatam ho jaye gi, jaise sahaba khatam karte thay. aur agar is ne chaha ke pooch gachh se khatam karein to kabhi khatam nahin hogi, kyunke woh ek angrez dekhe ga waqea ko, doosra angrez dekhe ga, aur koi bhi wazahat ki jaye, phir bhi aap ki shikayat baqi rahe gi. mera tajruba hai ke kabhi bhi wazahat se shikayat khatam nahin hoti, khatam hi nahin hoti, woh pari rehti hai. to jis aadmi ko Allah ko samne khare hone ka ehsas hai, jo aadmi jannat chahta hai, to us ko chahiye ke shikayat ko kill kare,

self killing seekhe shikayat ke moamle mein. aur nahin to phir yeh risk le ke Allah ke samne us ko khara hona pare ga aur jawab nahin de paye ga. woh you have to learn the art of self killing. khud hi khud apne andar kill kar diye, khatam kar dijiye is ko. koi pooch gachh nahin, koi discussion nahin, kuch nahin. yeh meri pakki yaqeen hai quran o hadith ke mutale se, zai tajrube se aur aql se, dono har har pehlu se maine is par ghhor kiya hai. to main yeh yeh is nateejay pohancha hoon ke shikayat ko ya to aadmi khud khat parta hai, nahin to shikayat kabhi khatam hi nahin hoti.

woh jeeta hai shikayaton, marta hai shikayaton mein. maulana, agla question kya hai? mister naveed kapoor ne dilli se, aur unhon ne likha hai ke what is the difference between a healthy discussion and an unhealthy discussion? is ke bare mein batayein. dekhiye, healthy discussion mein us ko maanu ga jo marifat par ho, dawat par ho, aur shikayaton par ho, to woh woh healthy discussion nahin hai. woh

jo log shikayaton par discussion karein, woh unhealthy discussion karte hain, woh kyunke is ka koi end nahin hai. maine bohat tajruba aap se hua ke jis ke dil mein shikayatein aa gayin, kuch bhi kehte rahiye, woh shikayat khatam nahin hoti. is ki main main misalein de kar bata sakta hoon ke kis tarah logon ne aisa, yani shikayat ab paida hui to kuch bhi kaho, kuch bhi kaho, woh shikayat baqi hai, khatam nahin hoti. is liye main dekh, shikayat ki baaton par is discussion kar raha hoon, woh unhealthy discussion hai.

healthy discussion woh hai jo marifat par ho, rabbaniyat par ho, jo dawat par ho, jo islam ki jo zimmedariyan hain, is par ho. woh main us ko healthy discussion samajhta hoon. jo discussion ka koi end hi na ho, woh health unhealthy rahe ga, is ka rahe ga. qaumon mein bhi yeh hota hai. aap jante hain ke aisi qaumein mein jo shikayatein aapas mein hain, pachas pachas saal se discussion chal rahe hain, aaj tak khatam nahin hua. abhi aaj bhi akhbar mein parh raha tha main ke do harif qaumein, do rival qaumon ka discussion ka qissa to chal raha hai pachas saal se, so saal se discussion, woh khatam hi nahin hota.

chahe individual ka moamla ho ya nation ka moamla ho, agar aap shikayaton ko le kar ke discussion karein ge to kabhi khatam nahin hoga. to positive subject par discussion kijiye. positive subject, positive subject matlab yeh hai jo islam ke aitbar se ke marifat ka subject, dawat ka subject, rabbaniyat ka subject, shukr ka subject, yeh yeh yeh hai, yeh hai healthy discussion, aur iska hamesha iska faida hi hoga, iska koi nuksan nahi hoga.

maulana, agla question lene se pehle ek comment padhna chahenge jo abhi abhi khwaja kaleemuddin sahib ne bheja hai pennsylvania usa se, aur unhone likha hai ke maulana sahib, der is an eminence demand for spanish translation of the quran. der isnt a good and affordable spanish translation of quran available in the market, but by the grace of allah and with the collaboration of good word and cps usa, a spanish translation is being prepared. inshallah, with in with in a month or two, it will be ready. in this connection, der is a need to also know the working knowledge of spanish language, so that effective quranic distribution can take place.

d er for, as a ramadan resolution this year, i have started learning spanish language, so that the distribution becomes easier. maulana sahib, i request you to make dua for all of us. hum sab log dua karte hain, bhai yeh to bohat bari news hai. ji, hum sab log dua karte hain, allah taala khoob khoob madad farmaye. yeh to bohat bari news hai, bohat hi achi news hai.

maulana, agla sawal lete hain jo deli se shahAB haider sahib ne poocha hai, aur unhone likha hai ke maulana sahib, what do you see about the present tussles and killings in iraq?