Keeping calm mind in problems and confrontation

Maulana, agla sawal miss naghma siddiqui ne kiya hai delhi se, aur unhon ne likha hai: "it is a fact that peaceful alternatives are always available in times of problem, but to see them one has to keep a calm mind. how can one keep a calm mind in situations of problem and confrontation? please advise us." bhai, yahi to insan ka sab se bara, mein samajhta hoon ke sab se bari quality hai insan ki ke soch sakta hai.

woh dog ladte hain sarkon par, woh soch nahi sakte. dog ke pas ma'ani nahi hota sochne ka. yeh ladte hain, ladte hain. insan soch sakta hai to apne is faculty ko insan istemal kare. yani dog ko jo aap dekhte hain sarkon par ladte hue, kyunke is ke pas thinking power nahi hai. thinking power na hone ki wajah se ladte hain. insan ke pas thinking power hai, apni thinking power ko istemal kare. thinking power istemal karne ka ma'ani hai ke woh cheezon ko in terms of result soche.

result kya niklega? dog ke pas yeh soch nahi hai ke woh cheezon ko in terms of result soche. insan, insan ke pas jo faculty hai, woh is liye to hai ke aap involve hone se pehle, rai shuru karne se pehle sochein ke is ka result kya hoga, aur phir apne ko rok lein. agar result ulta nikalta ho to. to yeh to allah ta'ala ne insan ko jo faculty di hai mind ki, woh sab se bara check wahi hai, sab se bara check. lekin log istemal nahi karte is ko.

Maulana, agla sawal delhi se kiya hai? likhne wale ne apna naam nahi diya hai, aur sawal hai: "one of my friend asked me about the use of witness law in islam.