Meaning and components of personality building

maulana, yeh sawal aaya hai maulana zikwan nadvi ka, deli se. unhon ne likha hai: "personality building ka matlab kya hai aur personality building ke bunyadi ajza kya hain?" dekhiye, yeh koi nayi cheez nahi hai. traditional lafz jo is ke liye hai woh hai tazkiya-e-nafs. rawayati zaban mein is ko log kehte rehte hain, kehte rahe hain tazkiya-e-nafs. isi tazkiya-e-nafsi ko mein aaj kal ki zaban mein kehta hoon personality building, personality development. personality ka aap ka jo wajood hai, zamane mein samjha jata tha ke qalb alag hai, dimagh alag hai aur soul alag hai.

yeh teen cheezein mante the jism ke ilawa, kyunke char cheezein hain: ek hamara jism hai, ek soul hai, ek qalb hai, ek dimagh hai. yeh science ke zamane mein is ko nahi mana jata. science ke zamane mein aap ka sirf do hi pehlu hain: ek mind hai, ek body hai. bas to body vehicle hai aap ki personality ka aur personality jo hai wohi jo mind hai, wohi personality hai. to personality building ka matlab yahi hai ke Khuda ne insan ko banaya hai nature par, sahi nature par. insan sahi nature pe paida hota hai lekin mahol mein us ki conditioning hoti rehti hai.

conditioning se hota hai ke kis cheez se nafrat karne lagta hai woh, kis cheez se mohabbat karne lagta hai woh. kisi ko dekh kar us ko ghussa aata hai, kisi ko dekh kar us ko pyar aata hai, kis cheez par woh proke aata hai, kis cheez par bardasht karta hai. yeh sab cheezein kya hain? conditioning ki wajah se hoti hain. to to yeh baad mein paida hota hai to yeh yeh process apne aap hi chal padta hai. yani process of conditioning.

to sach poocho to tazkiya-e-nafs ya personality development ka matlab yeh hai ke apne ko apni de-conditioning karna, yani daryaft karna ke mein kahan kahan meri conditioning ho gayi hai, kahan kahan mein mahol se, asar se kuch aadatein lag gayi hain, kuch galat soch lag gayi hai, kuch galat silsile mein ho gaya hoon. yeh hai to jaise aaj kal musalmanon ka haal yeh hai ke zara si baat yeh hogi to is par bhark uthte hain ke masjid ke samne koi juloos nikle, masjid koi koi nara laga de,

koi kahin gosht ka tukra dikhai de jaye, kuch bhi ho, koi cartoon chhap de to foran bhark uthenge. yeh bhark uthna jo hai nature nahi hai, yeh yeh conditioning hai. yani hamare yani so-called rehnumaon ne aisa kiya hai ke un ko in cheezon ko bharka diya hai. in cheezon ko to mein aaj subah soch raha tha ke hamari tareekh jo hai, yani tareekh ke do daur hain: pre media aur post media.

yeh pre media daur mein insan jo tha, uska case tha misuse of freedom ka case. ab kya hai? misuse of media ka case. aisi baatein chhapte hain log, aise jo log jise hain, yani negative ch cheezein. har society mein dekhiye, negative aur positive dono item hote hain. lekin media kya tha? chhaat chhaat kar ke negative cheezein chhapta hai. is is india mein, america mein, hatta ke israel mein, har jagah yeh qissa hai ke har jagah aisa nahi hai ke woh sab jaise log samajhte hain ke israel mein bohat hi bura hai.

aisa bilkul galat baat hai. wahan positive point, plus point bhi hai, negative point bhi hai. lekin hamara jo muslim media jo hai, negative point ko chhapta hai, plus point ko chhod deta hai. isi se logon ko conditioning hoti hai. ab barah-e-rast jab aap padhte hain, sunte hain ke israel jo hai, itna kharab hai to aap samajh jaate hain ke israel koi alag cheez hai. israel koi alag cheez nahi hai, woh bhi insaan hain, woh log bhi. chahe israel ka case ho, america ka case ho, ya india mein jo extremist parties hain, unka case ho, koi bhi hundred percent bura nahi hai.

har jagah kuch aisi cheezein hoti hain jo aap ko pasand na hon to hamare log isi ko le kar phasalate hain, isi ko bayan karte hain. is se kya hota hai? sunte sunte, padhte padhte condition aati hai. to sab log naam mein, yaani conditioning ka case ban gaye hain. to samajhta hoon ke personality development ka matlab yeh hai: apni de-conditioning. woh hoti hai muhasba ke zariye se.

jo aadmi aisa na kare to woh conditioning mein jiyega, conditioning mein marega. to bohat zaroori hai ke hum apni de-conditioning karein. wohi de-conditioning ka doosra naam tazkiya-e-nafs hai, isi ka naam personality building hai. sab kuch wahi tazkiya-e-nafs hai. rawayati zabaan mein woh tazkiya-e-nafs hai. aaj kal ki zabaan mein hum kahein ke woh de-conditioning hai ya personality development hai. Maulana, agla sawal aaya hai Miss Sadia Khan ka, Delhi se.