Study plan failure and parental frustration
“Sir, I am a second year engineering student. I have nine subjects to study and my exam starts on the ninth of December. The problem is that the moment I start my studies in the morning and make a plan to study for at least ten to twelve hours, I end up studying only two to three hours, which is very insufficient. Because of this, my parents start shouting at me and I get really irritated and frustrated and end up doing nothing.”Asked by Haren Sharma, Delhi
He answers at 1:24:46 in The Problem of Evil · 2 min 46 sec
1:24:46maulana, agla sawal aaya hai mr. hareen sharma ka, delhi se. unhon ne likha hai: "sir, i am a second year engineering student. i have nine subjects to study and my exam start in ninth of december. the problem is that the moment i start my studies in the morning and make a plan to study for at least ten to twelve hours, i end up studying only two to three hours, which is very insufficient." because of this, my parents start shouting at me and I get really irritated and frustrated and and up doing nothing. I can concentrate not more than two hours at a stretch. I am afraid I will end up failing. Please help me out."
1:25:41mere khayal se aap ka aap ke habits jo hain, us ko aap tod nahin paate. yeh in natural baat hai ke aadmi bas do ghanta parhe. kyun? aadmi sirf do ghanta parhega. aadmi chaar ghanta parh sakta hai. main yeh nahin kehta hoon ke aap barah ghante parhein. main yeh nahin kehta. lekin aap do ghanta, chaar ghanta, chhe ghanta parh sakte hain. yeh kuch habits hain jis ke jis ko aap chhod nahin paate. bahut buri cheez hai habit. habit jab ho jaati hai kisi ki to itna us ko yaani is se itna zyada familiar ho jaata hai ke na chhod kar bhi samajhta hai ke main chhod diya.
1:26:20ajeeb baat hai yeh maine paaya hai ke chhodte nahin samajhte ke hum ne chhod diya. mujhe batana padta hai kahin chhod diya aap ne. to jis aadmi ko bhi koi in natural is qism ka yaani maamla pesh aaye, yeh in natural hai. yaad rakhiye, yeh natural nahin hai. aur is liye koi na koi habit galat lagi hui hai aap ko. is habit ko discover kijiye. main to aaj tak dhoondta rehta hoon ke aisi habit jo mujhe bachpan se lag gayi ho, abhi tak lagi hui ho. to habit badi buri cheez hai.
1:26:57bade bade logon ko habit lagi rehti hai aur bachpan se lag jaati hai. to aadmi is pe condition ho jaata hai. to aap aap sawab maamla sirf parent ka nahin hai. aap future mein kya karenge? aap ko zindagi guzarna hai duniya mein. aap ke paas achhi education chahiye. to kaise zindagi guzarenge aap ? masla parent ka nahin hai, masla aap ke apne future ka hai. to aap apni jo wrong habits hain, us ko daryaft kijiye aur us apne is yaani is ko correct kijiye, is ki islaah kijiye. doctor Muslima ne Delhi se sawal likha hai. unhone poocha hai ke Quran mein aata hai ke hum ne Furqan utara. is ke bare mein aap kuch bataein.