How Can We Develop Right Thinking?
“Moulana, we go through many experiences in daily life but often fail to draw the right lessons, losing the spiritual food in them. How can we develop the right thinking? Please guide us.”Asked by Sajid Anwar, Roorkee
He answers at 1:02:59 in Personality Building · 7 min 12 sec
1:02:59maulana, agla sawal roorkee se hai sajid anwar sahab ka. unhon ne likha hai: "maulana, we also go through many experiences in our daily life, but many times unable to draw right lessons from them. this losing the opportunity to get the spiritual food contained in them. my question is: how can we develop the right thinking?" maulana, please guide us. dekhen, bohat asan hai. aaj main aaj ka apna experience bataon. aaj ka, aaj subah mujhe nahana tha, to main ne kya kiya? mere bathroom mein geyser hai, us ko chala diya. adha ghante tak chal gaya, pani is ka garam ho gaya. kamre mein bahar aaya to to aap ne do heater laga diya tha, wahan kamra bhi garam tha.
1:03:57to nahakar jab nikla to garam kapde to nahakar nikla to garam kamre mein baith kar woh kapda badal liya. sab kuch bilkul smooth tor par hua. to main ne kya kiya? main ne socha ke jab is se pehle main gaon mein tha to hamare gaon mein bijli nahi thi, electricity nahi thi. wahan par kerosene se lamp jalte the, lalten jalti thi. lalten to main ne compare kiya ke is waqt mere liye possible hi nahi tha ke main geyser chalaon aur heater chalaon, kyunke wahan tha hi nahi. yeh electricity hamare gaon mein aayi nahi thi. to in comparison, that we understand. aap compare kijiye,
1:04:44har aadmi ke paas ek past hota hai, us se compare kar ke woh apne present mein khuda ki blessing ko daryaft kar sakta hai. har aadmi ko, chahe obama ho, tab bhi obama ke bhi ek past hai. is past ko agar aap yaad karenge to us ke andar shukr aayega, tab us ko discovery hogi. to sab se asan tareeqa yeh hai ke aap apne present mein jo aap kuch pa rahe hain, past ko le kar sochiye aur compare kijiye, jaise ke main karta rehta hoon. main rozana hi karta rehta hoon. jaise kitchen mein main gaya, wahan par gas jal rahi thi. main ne socha ke jab main gaon mein tha to wahan koi concept hi nahi tha ke aap ek switch ghumayen aur gas nikalne lage. wahan to lakri aur is tarah ki cheez jala kar ke aag milti thi.
1:05:35to is comparison se main ne socha ke Allah ke karti bari blessing ke aaj hamein gas mili hui hai. sab se asan tareeqa apne andar shukr ko develop karne ka yeh hai, ya shukr ka matlab kya hai? positive thinking. sari negativity khatam ho jayegi aap ki, aur positive thinking ke siwa kuch aap ke mind mein rahega nahi. bas itna aap karen ke apne present ko past se compare karte rahen. har aadmi ke paas jo past hota hai, woh kuch hota hai, present jo hai, woh kuch hota hai. jaise main hyderabad mein gaya to wahan mujhe diya gaya tha topic bolne ke liye ke hyderabad ke musalman kya karen.
1:06:21yeh topic diya gaya tha. to main ne kaha ke yeh karen ke woh shukr karen. phir main ne poocha ke dekhen, jab independence se pehle ka jo hyderabad tha, to main yahan aaya tha. is waqt independence se pehle gaya tha main wahan. to main ne dekha, main ne kaha ke wahan siwaye rickshaw ke aur kuch dikhai nahi deta. sirf rickshaw, rickshaw, rickshaw. aur ab main aaya hoon to wahan par airport par utra hoon. main to car hi car musalmanon ke mehle mein jaon ya jahan bhi jaon, car hi car. acchi sadken sab. to
1:06:53aap compare kijiye ke aaj aap caron par dor rahe hain, is se pehle aap riksha khichte the. to shukr hi shukr aayega. to main samajhta hoon ke positive thinking ko develop karne ka sab se aasan tareeqa yeh hai ke aap apne present ko past se compare karen. b s aap apne doosre ke nahin. yeh nahin ke uss waqt falan raja kaise rehta tha, falan badshah kaise rehta tha, yeh matlab nahin. apne present ko apne past se ke main aaj jahan hoon, kya mere dada bhi aise hi the? wahan dada ki haalat kya thi? to maloom hoga ke dada se main hazaar guna behtar hoon. to saari negative thinking apne aap khatam ho jayegi.
1:07:35negative thinking jo aati hai, woh sirf iss liye aati hai ke aadmi past ko bhula kar ke sochta hai. past ko bhula kar ke sochta hai. bahut hi aasan tareeqa. main to daily yahi karta hoon, rozana yahi karta hoon. aaj bhi maine yahi kiya ke main yeh socha ke aap bol raha hoon. main is se pehle bhi bolta tha. jab main apne gaon mein tha, main aadha bada tha to wahan par yeh sab kuch bhi nahin tha. yeh system hi nahin tha, yeh technology nahin thi. aaj main bol raha hoon to meri baat record ho rahi hai. woh yaani video recording ho rahi hai. duniya mein jagah jo log sun rahe hain, to maine compare kiya aaj ko past se.
1:08:18to likha ke kitna Allah ka shukr hai. to shukr ka matlab kya hai? apni negativity, negative thinking ko khatam karna aur positive thinking ko develop karna. sab se bada jo formula hai personality development ka, woh yeh hai ke aap apne andar se negative thinking ko khatam karen aur positive thinking ko develop karen. aur is ka sab se aasan raaz yahi hai har aadmi ke liye. jaise abhi kal ki baat hai, ek sahab mere paas aaye, suit woot pehne hue the. woh bahut hi shandaar suit tha un ka. to woh bhi lage yeh kehne ke musalmanon par zulm ho raha hai, yeh ho raha hai, woh ho raha hai.
1:08:56main un ko jaanta tha iss waqt se jab ke woh naujawan the, to bilkul mamooli haalat mein the. woh bilkul ek par family paida hue the. main ne kaha apne aap ko compare kijiye ke aaj aap iss haalat mein, aap ke bachche jo hain Europe mein settle ho gaye hain, to aap shukr shukr kyun nahin karte? shikayatein kyun karte hain? to main jo hai apne tajrube se maine paya hai ke log apne itni hi sab se waghera karen ke apne present ko apne past se compare karen.
1:09:28to saari negativity, negative thinking khatam ho jaye. Maulana, agla sawal lene se pehle ek comment padhna chahenge jo New York se Dr. Waqar Alam ne abhi abhi bheja hai. unhone likha hai: "I work with brothers and sisters of Ibrahim faith and greet them in their new year. in return, they ask me about the Islamic new year and that opens a discussion about Islamic faith and helps me to introduce them about Islam.
1:10:07this is the positive side of new year greetings." haan, bahut achha hai, bahut achha example hai, bahut achha example hai. Maulana, agla sawal jo hai woh Pennsylvania, USA se hai Khwaja Kaleemuddin sahab ka.