41:03apa, ek sawal bheja hai Rohit Kumar ji ne, Amritsar se program ko dekh rahe hain. woh unhon ne likha hai, "Apa ji, kya hamare dil aur dimagh ka taluq hamari rooh se hota hai? hamare andar jo khayal paida hote hain, hamein kaise pata chale ke woh hamare dil aur dimagh ka khayal hai ya rooh ki awaz? kya rooh ki awaz hamein sunai deti hai? hamein kaise pata chale ke yeh hamare mann ka khayal hai ya hamare dimagh ka?" apa, kripa is ko clear karen. insaan ke andar asal cheez dimaghi hai, mind hi hai. woh hamein feel hota hai jaise hum koi bohat khush hue hain to hamein heart lagta hai ke hamara zyada beat barh gayi hai ya koi sad ho gaye hain.
41:54to aisa heart ke level par hamein is ka effect mehsoos hota hai. woh effect hai, asal to mind hi hai. wahi hamari personality hai, wahi usi ko rooh aap keh sakte hain. wahi consciousness jo hai, to wahi hai. mind hi yeh sab kuch hai. woh is ka sirf ehsaas hum ko alag alag mehsoos hota hai. kabhi heart pe mehsoos hota hai. to kyunke heart jo hai na, blood ko pump karta hai. ab hamein zyada hum woh ho gaye, bohat zyada ehtejaj mein aa gaye. kya kahein ge is ko? to woh as heart ke, us ko baray beat, heart beat barh jati hai.
42:33to aisa lagta hai ke heart mein is ka asar, heart ki wajah se aisa hua. aisa nahi hai, woh to effect hai. asal to mind hi hai. mind hi sochta hai, lekin mind itna zabardast tareeqay se automatic system hai woh ke foran feel kar leta hai. is ko der nahi lagti hai fail karne mein. ji to is liye hum samajh nahi paate ke hum ko mind se humein yeh baat hui hai. humein lagta hai ke heart se hui hai. woh asal cheez mind, insaan ke dimagh mein mind hi hai.
43:05ji ji aur bilkul apa aap ne sahi kaha ke main cheez to mind hi hai. aur shuru se hi Allah taala ne sab ke andar, jis ka apa aya ke lafz nafs lawwama aur nafs ammara ke insaan ke andar consciousness bhi hai aur ego bhi hai. to ab yeh aap par depend karta hai ke aap kis ko feed karte hain. to agar aap consciousness ko feed karenge to khayal achhe honge, aap ki personality positive banegi. ego ko feed karenge to negative personality banegi. to yeh integral part hai of the mind and of the personality. aur aksar is ko na samajhne se logon ke andar confusion ho jati hai. woh sochte hain ke rooh alag hai, dimagh alag hai, dil alag hai.
43:45lekin asal mein main cheez aik hi hai, dimagh. aur is mein Allah taala ne aik upright nature shuru se hi dala hua hai. to yeh hamare upar depend karta hai that how we build our personalities. asal mein woh pehle zamane mein jab researches nahi hui thi na, ji tab log samajhte the alag alag. ab science ki jo research se pata chala hai ke asal cheez mind hi hai. bilkul ji ji apa aik sawal, yeh hashim ali sahib ne multan se kiya, pakistan se. aap is ka jawab de chuki hain. shayad unhon ne late session ko join kiya, but yeh aap se pooch rahe hain ke what is the meaning of purification of heart?
44:23to is ke bare mein aap batain. woh is zamane mein dekhiye, heart ka lafz bola jata tha jaise whole heartedly. woh bola jata tha, riwaj mein tha. ab whole mindedly nahi, koi bolega. woh bola jata tha. to wohi Islam mein bhi woh alfaaz to wohi sab aa jate hain jo language mein istemal hote hain. to asal mein purification of the mind hai. ji woh bola jata tha, is liye purification of the heart bola jane laga. ji to wohi mind, wohi is ka aik thought process poora chalana parega. ji jahan hum ne koi ghalti ki, is ko foran is ko rectify karna parega
45:03a. musalsal watch karna parega ke hamare andar koi ghalt idea, hum ne koi ghalt kaam kiya ho, kisi ko nuqsan pohanchaya ho. to yeh sab cheezon ko check karte rehna parega. agar check nahi karenge to dheere dheere hamari poori personality pollute ho jayegi. aik bar mujhe yaad aata hai ke taqreeban shayad 25, 20, 25 saal ke Maulana rahe honge. ji to un ki jeb mein kuch so do so rupiya tha kisi ka. ab pata nahi kyun un ko aisa feel hua ke kahin mein mar jaon to pata nahi chalega kis ka paisa hai. hmm to un ko neend hi nahi aa rahi thi.
45:44ji ji phir unhon ne lalten jalai. woh gaon ka zamana tha. lalten jalai, aik kaghaz qalam liya aur likha ke mein mar jaon to yeh paisa falan ko de diya jaye. ji to itna zyada insaan ko conscious rehna hai ke hum se koi ghalti na ho jaye. jab conscious rahenge to phir woh sensitivity develop ho jayegi aur phir hum har ghalt kaam se khud ba khud bachne lagenge. bohat achha example yaad dilaya apa aap ne. to asal cheez wohi hai jo aap ne kaha ke is nature pe lotna, jis nature pe Allah taala ne insaan ko paida kiya hai. ke apne dil mein kisi ke liye hate nahi rakhna, kisi ke andar malech, kisi ke liye
46:25malech nahi rakhna, aur doosre ke liye khair khwah banna. God oriented life bana batana. to yahi yahi hai purification of heart. and Quran mein aya hai ke only truly dost people be entered into paradise who have sound heart. to sound heart ka matlab hi yahi hai ke purified personality. to yeh to jannat ki condition hai apa. to aur yeh bhi tha ke jaise ab aba jo hain baat cheet karne ke andaaz mein kabhi bohat hi matlab bohat hi koi baat nahi samajh raha hai na to thoda tez bol dete the samjhane ke is liye ke us ko samajh mein nahi aa raha hai.
47:07ke aap ki samajh mein nahi aata aisa kuch keh diya. aisi koi baat aisi keh di na to koi bhi time ho, raat ka time ho, din ka time ho, agar aisi koi baat ho gayi to woh us ke ghar jaate the us se maafii maangne. to yeh mashhoor ho gaya tha ke agar yeh waheeduddin khan be waqt kisi ke ghar jayen to samajh lo maafii maangne aaye honge. to ghaltiyaan hoti hain, insaan hain, insaan ghalti karta hai. to humein maafii maangne ke liye tayyar rehna cha
47:38ahiye. bilkul apa bohat ziyada hum logon ki hammering hoti thi. ke aap ghalti kyun nahi maante? foran ghalti maaniye. to bohat achhe examples bataye apa aap ne. apa aakhri sawal aaj ke session ka. apa aap ki conversation se to yahi seekha aaj hum ne ke tazkiya makes a person, builds a person with a noble personality, brings a man closer to God, and also enables him to be a deserving candidate for the company of angels. lekin apa ek hi cheez is ko derail kar sakti hai aur woh hai distraction.
48:17maulana sahib kehte the ke one of the successful principle to lead a life, successful life in this world is that you should be able to abandon one thing in favor of another. to koi bhi insaan zindagi mein do do priorities nahi rakh sakta. focus mein ek hi cheez hoti hai. to agar aap ka focus, aap ki priority tazkiya hai, so you have to abandon all those things which are irrelevant for tazkiya . to apa kal mila ke jo ek sab se aham question hai, saare log aaj ki date mein isi mein mubtala hain, isi mein phanse hue hain. distraction to kaise apne aap ko distraction se bachayen? yeh apa aaj ka aakhri sawal hai. isi par main chahunga ke aap session ko khatam karen.
49:07distraction hi main cheez hai jis ki wajah se hum apna tazkiya nahi kar paate. to baar baar hum distract hote rehte hain. aur sab se pehle humein yeh jaanna hai ke hamare paas bohat hi limited period of time hai. hamare paas waqt bohat kam hai. agar hum is mein distract hote rahenge baar baar to pata chalega ke hamara time hi khatam ho gaya. ab hum kuch karne ki position mein hi nahi hain. to yeh baat humein samajhna hai aur apne aap ko poori tarah se har waqt tayyar rakhna hai ke jahan bhi koi un ko jahan bhi aisa lage ke yeh cheez humein matlab sab se pehle to humein apna goal set kar lena hai ke hamara goal kya hai?
49:53kya spirituality hamara goal hai? Khuda se connection qaim karna hamara goal hai? ya duniya ka bhi koi goal ho to humein us goal ko sab se pehle set kar lena hai. is ke baad dekhna hai ke kya koi aisi cheez hai jo is mein hamare woh obstacle create kar rahi hai. matlab bohat saare log hain jo lazeez khano ke chakkar mein rehte hain. aur ladies khaas taur par shopping ke chakkar mein rehti hain. kitne hi un ke paas samaan ho lekin shopping karne chali jaati hain.
50:26entertainment hai, daawaten hain aur bohat saari cheezen aisi hain. to yeh saari cheezon se apne aap ko bachana padega. jab Maulana keh dete hain need based life guzarni padegi. kyunke yeh to saari zindagi bazaar mein to roz nayi nayi cheezen aati rehti hain. agar hum yeh karenge ke hum ko roz nayi nayi cheez chahiye, ab is se hum bore ho gaye, dil bhar gaya to hum phir isi mein. Maulana ke kamre mein chaalis saal wahi ek hi furniture raha. ji ji ji bilkul apa. woh kuch laane hi nahi dete the. abhi bhi wahi pada hai apa. ek baar kya hua, ek lambi si sofa bhi nahi thi, lambi bench thi.
51:06achi thi woh. san usnein laye ke yeh abba ke kamre mein rakh dete hain. aur log aate hain baithne baithne ke liye. to maine kaha abba rakhne to denge nahin. to jab woh namaz parhne lage na tab maine khamosh use ek taraf rakhwa diya. ji namaz parha parh ke sab se pehle unhon ne is ko bahar nikala. to woh kehte thay main status ko mein change nahin karta. kyunke woh distraction ban jata hai. ji to is tarah se woh distraction se bohat door rehte thay. koi bhi aisa kaam nahin karte thay jaise shadiyon mein jana, dawatوں mein jana, taqreebon mein jana, yeh sab nahin karte thay.
51:46shuru shuru mein logon ne bohat shikayatein keen ke kahin aana jana nahin karte. lekin woh dheere dheere log bhi samajh lete hain ke yeh nahin aaye jayenge to phir kehna bhi chhod dete hain woh. ji to yeh har aadmi ka distraction alag alag hota hai. woh hamein khud hi is ko discover karna hai ke hamara kya distraction hai. to aur is se hamein apne aap ko hum bachana hai. kyunke hamare bilkul focused hum reh
52:15ein. jo maine kaha tha na shehad ki makhi ki tarah hum focused rahein. tabhi hum kai kar sakte hain. ab jaise hum hi logon ka hai, jagah jagah log bulane lagte hain. kahin program bula rahe hain, kahin kuch kar rahe hain. yeh yeh kaam hai, woh kaam hai. to hum nahin jaate ke hamare paas bohat kaam hai. to is tarah se har aadmi ka alag alag distraction hota hai. aur jab tak ke woh apne aap ko is distraction se nahin bachayega, tab tak woh focus nahin kar sakta. jab focus nahin karega to is ko woh jo is ko paana chahta hai, woh na woh dunya ka koi goal hasil kar sakta hai, na koi akhirat ke hisab se koi goal hasil kar sakta hai.
52:54jab tak ke woh apne aap ko har distraction se na bachaye. ji jazak Allah apa for doing a very good session today. aap ko aaj ka session kaisa laga? aap is ke bare mein zaroor comment section mein likhiye. and also if you want apa fareeda apa to take a topic of your choice, do mention the list of topics in the comment section. we will be back next sunday same time. thank you for watching today sunday session.