Is divorce and khula a civilized solution?

haan maulana agla sawal hai ah mister mustafa umri ka delhi se unhone likha hai kya islam mein talaq aur khula ki ijazat aurat aur mard ke jhagde ka civilized solution hai hargiz nahi kuch bhi nahi main to us ko aaj bhi meri kitab abhi chhap ke aayi hai aaj hi us ko aap padhiye talaq ko to main sirf yani ek aham maqam ka kaam samajhta hoon behral kisi bhi haal mein talaq nahi dena chahiye you have to know the art of different management jis difference ko le kar ke talaq dete hain log us ko manage karo main kaha karta hoon ke shadi ho gayi to ho gayi main kaha karta hoon shadi ho gayi to ho gayi shadi ek bar hoti hai bas shadi do bar nahi hoti hai shadi do bar nahi hoti hai jo differences aate hain un ko manage kijiye dekhen difference kyun aate hain main batata hoon aap ko ek sahib ne india mein apni bachi ko khoob padhaya aur paise wale the woh aur ghar mein un ke do teen woh the kaam karne wale domestic help taqreeban teen teen the un ke

ghar mein to ladki kuch kaam to karti nahi thi ab shadi kar di kahan america mein shadi kar di ab wahan domestic help hota hi nahi har aadmi ko kaam khud karna padta hai ab kya hua wahan par woh kuch karti thi nikah aur is ka husband jo tha woh ghussa hota tha jab aata tha office se dekha ke sab saman bikhra hua hai koi intizam nahi hai khane peene ka kuch bhi nahi to natija hai ke woh talak ho gayi to yeh yeh talak jo hai yeh yeh is mein ek sabak hai ke talak ka zimmedar kaun hai parent zimmedar hai ke tum ne jab aisa banaya to india mein shadi karte hain is ki america mein koi shadi kar di aise hi aam taur par kya hota hai har ghar mein taqreeban ke beti ko khoob pyar karte hain

ke aisa soorat e haal mein jayegi to us ko to wahan museebat padegi to bhai jab aap ne aadi nahi banaya us ko museebat sehne ka to wahan jayegi jhagda karegi main aise maa dekhe hain jo kaam nahi karwati betiyon se are bhai wahan to use karna hi padega bhai jab aadat nahi to kare kise to main samajhta hoon ke sab se bare jo zimmedar hain woh hain maa baap apne bachiyon ko apne beton ko galat zehan banate hain sahi zehan ka adjustment shadi means adjustment koi bhi yaad rakhiye duniya mein koi ideal shohar nahi hai ideal wife nahi hai yeh bilkul ek myth hai ke koi duniya mein aisa ho sakta hai ke jo ek aurat ke liye ideal husband ho ya husband ke liye ek ideal wife ho adjustment karna padta hai aap ko aur yeh baat maa baap batate nahi jaise ek mashhoor gana hai un ka rafi sahab ka main to us ko bewakoofi gana samajhta hoon ke

makey ki kabhi na yaad aaye sasural mein itna pyar mile yeh to ahmaqana baat hai aisi sasural koi hoti hi nahi makey ki kabhi na yaad aaye sasural mein aisa aisa pyar mile aisi aisa sasural koi hota hi nahi to aap ladki ko aisa zehan de rahe hain ke woh ek foods priorites mein jiye to haqeeqat talak to bilkul honi hi nahi chahiye talak hoti hai bewakoofi se haan hamakat se aur zyada tar zimmedar is mein hote hain kaun maa baap dusri baat jo hai aaj kal jo western concept hai gender equality mein is ko bilkul unnatural samajhta hoon unnatural gender equality is nothing dekhiye duniya chal rahi hai bossism ke principle par bossism yani hamari government mein boss kaun hai prime minister company mein boss kaun hai wahan ka director railway railway chal rahi hai dorr rahi hai to is ka boss kaun hai driver

to to yeh in why your home is exception wahan yeh ek boss hona chahiye is duniya ka sara ilzaam chal raha hai bosses ke principle pe suraj system ka bhi ek boss hai woh us woh suraj hai to gender equality bilkul hi unnatural theory hai ghar mein ek boss hona chahiye nahi to phir jhagda hoga jhagda hoga jhagda hoga main to auraton ko boss banaye rehta hoon hamari biwi jo theen abhi un ka inteqal ho gaya hai wahi boss thi jo jo chahte wahi hota tha jo aajaye wahi hota tha to dekhiye gender equality bilkul hai absurd hai unnatural hai chalne wala nahi hai aur yeh jhagde paida hote hain woh kehte hain ke main kyun karoon kya main kyun karoon yeh yahi galat hai boss banaiye apne ghar mein sab se aqalmand woh hai jo doosre ko boss bana le yani mard aqalmand hota hai to woh aurat ko boss bana lega aurat aqalmand hoti hai woh boss is mard ko boss bana lega to bosses ka principle jo hai is ka negation hai gender equality concept woh bilkul unnatural hai woh kabhi chalne wala nahi hai sirf separation hoga talak hoga ladai jhagda hoga

yani gender equality ki base pe koi society nahi bana sakta koi society impossible hai to main bilkul is ke khilaf hoon gender equality ke main manta hoon ke bossism ka principle ghar mein bhi apply hona chahiye jaise company mein apply hota hai aur main to is mein itna zyada manta hoon ke main main khud hi ko apne aurat ko boss bana liya maine mujhe shauk nahi hai ke main boss banu kyunki ghar chal nahi sakta is ke baghair to talak bilkul hi unnecessary unnecessary cheez hai talak ki koi zaroorat hi nahi hai agar aap manage karna jaane it is a matter of management jab koi controversy ho to aap us ko manage kijiye apne apne mind ko aap apply kijiye wahan par talak kya hai molana agla sawal hai miss naghma siddiqui ka from new delhi unhone likha hai what are the general obstacles to the third level of god realization that is intuition bhai apne apne conditioning ko