Love of the Prophet advice

molana agla sawal mister khawaja kaleemuddin ne kiya hai america se unhon ne likha hai i have just returned from a program where a mufti of a maryland masjid had arrived and was delivering a lecture on the topic love of the prophet he was advising people to love the prophet by liking the things what he liked he said the prophet used to like squash in urdu it is

kaddu he said we should all eat squash the other thing what he said was that in the day of qyamat the prophet will stand at the gate of jannah and will not enter until each and every person of his ummah has not entered is

this is true yeh sab bilkul baseless baatein hain ke taqreer karne wale se baatein bola karte hain rasoolullah ke muamle mein dekhiye jo basic hamara jo jo hona chahiye tareeqa woh ek aayat mein bata diya gaya hai woh aayat hai qul in

kun tum tuhibbunallaha fatabiuni yuhbibkumullahu surah al imran mein qul in kun tum tuhibbunallaha fatabiuni yuhbibkumullahu dekhiye iska tarjuma yeh hai kaho ke agar tum Allah se mohabbat karte ho to rasool ko itba karo toh itba is se nikalta hai ke rasool se ke bare mein jo matloob hai aslan woh itba hai toh yeh lekin itba ka matlab yeh nahi ke woh kaddu khaye toh hum kaddu khaye yeh hargiz nahi matlab is ka hai itba deen ke maamle mein

ulama ne dekhiye tafrigh ki hai sunnat aadiyah sunnat ghair aadiyah yaani arab ki aadat ke mutabiq kuch cheezein thi wahan par jo rasool Allah ne ikhtiyar kiya jaise kaddu kha liya to kaddu sunnat nahi hai woh arab ki aadat hai jo sunnat hai woh hai jo rasool sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne zuban se farmaya ho ke aisa

karo ke aap ne farmaya ke ke salu kama rait مني asli namaz is tarah padho dekh kar jaise ke main padhta hoon ke aap ne farmaya to yeh masla ulama ka muslim hai ke rasool Allah ne lafzan jis baat ko kaha ho woh hukum banega aur yeh jo yeh jo hai khane

peene ke maamlaat ya kapde ke maamlaat ya sawari ke maamlaat woh nahi hain jo mufti sahib ne taqreer ki kya woh khachhar par sawari karte hain oont par sawari karte hain woh kaise pahunch gaye America kya oont par maut ke America gaye the woh ya aisi taqreerein log karte hain beqarar soch samjhe to sunnat ka matlab yeh nahi ke aap oont par sawari karein khachar par sawari karein kaddu khayein

harghiz nahi sunnat ka mutalliq hai woh cheezein jo aap ko Allah ki raza deti hain aur aap ko jannat mein dakhle ka yaani haq hum is istihqaq deti hain is bare mein itba baqi jo hai jo arab ke tareeqe the woh isko woh woh woh sunnat nahi hai woh woh woh sunnat ke darje mein nahi hai

woh yeh baat ulama ne bahut is par tafseel se likhi hai yeh baat hai koi mein nayi baat nahi kar raha hoon ke jin cheezon ka talluq jannat o jahannum se hai asal mein wahi sunnat hai baqi cheezein jo aap ka zaouq ho zaati zaouq ho ya arab ki aadaat se talluq rakhta

ho woh sunnat is darje ki sunnat nahi hai ke iska aap itba karein iska misalan is zamane mein aap motor car par padhte hain aap khachar par nahi padhte hain oont par nahi padhenge to iska matlab nahi ke jo jo car par baitha hai ke woh woh sunnat ke khilaf chal raha hai yeh matlab nahi hai to is tarah ki baatein log taqreerein karte

hain lekin woh sab bilkul baseless hoti hain maulana agla sawal kya hai mister aamir bin yusuf ne karachi pakistan se unhone likha hai kindly explain what is huqooqullah and what is huqooqul ibad