Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

Dealing with grief after losing children

“I am in great grief. I was educating and training four small children alone. When I got some peace, Allah took away two children together. Now from this grief, what should I do?”Asked by Firdous Sharif

He answers at 50:55 in Realization of God · 1 min 30 sec

His answer, in his own words
50:55
molana agla sawal miss fardous shareef ne kiya hai unho ne location nahi likhi hai apni un ka sawal yeh hai molana sahib mein bohat gham mein hoon char chote bachon ki akele taleem aur tarbiyat ki jab kuch sukoon mila to do bachhe ek sath allah ne bula liye ab is gham se kaise niklun mere charon bachhe bohat naik aur farmanbardar the ab do bachhon ke sath hoon
51:26
jo aap khud hi keh rahe hain ke allah ne bula liye tab bhi gham aap ko yani bulane wala jo khuda hai to to khush hona chahiye gham kyu contradiction zara dekhiye ek taraf to aap keh rahe hain ke Allah ne bula hai doosri taraf gham khula hua contradiction hai
51:48
contradiction nahi hai to munafiqat hai baat to yeh hai ke dil mein ke bete mar gaye lekin keh rahe hain ke khuda ne bila lia yeh to munafiqat ki baat hai to aap kam se kam is se nikliye munafqat se wahi kahiye jo aap ke dil mein hai
52:07
aap agar aap ke dil mein yeh hai ke Allah ne bila lia to gham mat kijiye agar yeh dil mein nahi hai to kahiye ke mar gaye yeh kyun kehte hain ke bila lia sab se pehle apni islaah kijiye Maulana agla sawal lene se pehle ek comment padhna chahenge jo Aamir Mori ne Srinagar se bheja hai unhone likha hai only a honey bee is able to extract nectar because it does it with prepared mind
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