Developing sensitivity to avoid distraction
“You said to one of the questioners today that sensitivity checks whether we are getting distracted or not. My question is, how can we develop sensitivity?”Asked by Waqar, Mumbai
He answers at 1:09:29 in Save Yourself from Distraction · 3 min 48 sec
1:09:29Maulana, haan Maulana, agla sawal Mumbai say hai Waqar sahib ka aur unhon nay likha hai: "Maulana sahib, You said to one of the question today that sensitivity checks whether we are getting distracted or not. my question is, how can we develop sensitivity?" Bhai sochen, log sochtay nahi, hamesha koi bhi cheez ho, usi mein phans jatay hain.
1:09:55jaisay mein aap ko aik aik qissa batata hoon, aik aalim thay, ab un ka intiqal ho gaya, baqaida aalim thay woh. to mein ne aik aik bohat hi, yaani aik fiqhi, is par woh fiqh ke ustaad maane jatay thay, fiqh mein unhon ne research kiya tha, doctorate kiya tha.
1:10:16to mein ne fiqh par aik mazmoon likha, to mein ne chaha ke un ki rai loon. mujhe apartment liya, to mein un ke ghar par gaya apna mazmoon le kar aur mein parhta tha, woh suntay thay, lekin is beech mein bar bar un ka aik chota bacha tha, bar bar aata tha, woh foran mutawajjah ho jatay, us ko pakartay thay, choomte thay, yeh karte hue.
1:10:46yeh yeh kyun nahi? aik aap makana baat hai, aap ne kisi ko time diya hai to us waqt bachon ko keh dein ke tum mat jao. man'a kyun nahi karte? aap man'a kyun nahi karte? mein ne aik bohat baray aalim ka qissa suna, parha ke aik bohat baray aalim thay, un ka koi program par jana tha, un ko to aindah
1:11:13waqt par chota bacha aa kar un ke paon pakar liya, us ne abba abba kehne laga, ab woh isi mein masghool ho gaye, yahan tak ke program late pohanchay. yeh sab aap ke, yaani yeh cheezein jo distract karti hain aap ko, samjhein ke aap aap aap zindagi ka koi qadar nahi jantay.
1:11:36aap choti choti baatein aap ko kahein aap ko distract kar deti hain. aap ko sochna chahiye ke is waqt bachon ko bhagana hai, aap ko bhago, hum ko program mein jana hai, bhago, hum ko is waqt yeh sunna hai. bhai yeh sab kijiye, yeh kya? koi bhi aa ke aap ko distract kar de? yeh koi baat
1:12:01hui? yeh to bohat hi, yaani insan ke andar jo Allah taala ne siftat diye, us ko istemal na karna hai. okay, so we will end today session, we will be back next Sunday same time 10:30 AM. thank you.