Advice for a Failed Person

Maulana agla sawal Zia ur Rehman sahib ka hai unhon ne apni location nahi bheji hai un ka sawal hai I think I am a failed person. I don't have higher education nor a permanent job. So I am thinking to go abroad to get myself a chance for a good life for my

children and family. Maulana sahib kindly guide me in this regard. dekhiye, bahar jana koi choice nahi hai kyunke bahar ke mulkon mein yaani developed countries mein jo hai bahut sakht competition hota hai.

sirf merit par wahan milte hain. ameer jab aap ke paas deen India mein nahi kaam kare toh wahan kya kaam kare gi? jitne bhi developed countries hain wahan sirf merit kaam kaam aati hai aur koi cheez kaam nahi aati. aur koi cheez kaam nahi aati wahan toh jab aap ke paas koi aisi yaani aisi koi degree

nahi hai, expertise nahi hai toh wahan jaane ka koi koi matlab hi nahi banta. aap ko sirf yeh karna hai ke India hi mein yeh sochein ke kaun si skill apne andar paida karun. kisi skill ko apne andar develop karna pare ga training ke zariye se ya ya phir yeh ke boht choti job par aadi ho jae.

aap dekhen, aaj ki society jo hai is mein do hi option hain aadmi ke liye: ya to choti job par aadi ho jae ya phir skill paida kare apne andar. jaise is dilli mein lakhon lakh log larkay aur larkiyan kaam karte hain, dharu gharon mein jharoo dete hain, safai karte hain, wo un ko kaam lia hua hai.

har aadmi abhi ab koi chahe to kaam mil mil jae ga to lekin log chahte hain koi kisi base par baith ke baithne wala job. to dekhiye, job hamesha har har haal mein mojood rehta hai. sirf yeh hai ke aap chahte hain zyada honorable job, wo nahi mil raha hai.

warna job to kia hai, agar aadmi derdi ho jae ghar ki safai par karne ka to sankron job mojood hain aise aadmi ke liye. to aap ko ya to choti job par raazi hona pare ga ya aap aisa karen ke koi skill paida karen apne andar.

skill aik baat yeh hai, doosri baat yeh hai ke yeh tasawwur ghalat hai ke aap kaam kamain ge to bachon ka kaam chle ga. aap ki kamai se bachon ka koi talluq nahi hai. bachon ke andar aap instinct bhi paida kiye mehnat mehnat ka.

abhi mein qissa bata chuka hoon shayad aap se. hamare office mein aik sahab thay jo yahan kaam karte thay yani mamooli kaam tha un ka. achanak uth ke death ho gai achanak to un ke kai chote chote bache thay. to hum sab logon ne socha ke ab kia hoga, kia hoga lekin kia hoga? nature ne kaam

kia, nature ne har bache ke andar instinct jaag para ke mera baap mar gaya, ab mujhe kaam karna hai. mera baap mar gaya, ab mujhe kaam karna hai. to sab bachon ne parh dala aur aur job bhi mil gaya un ko aur mujhe pata chala ke baqayda wo apne zaati ghar bana lia unhon ne.

zati ghar halankay baap nay kuch paisa nahi chora tha in kay liye, instinct chora tha. Instinct to aap ko mein do baatein kahoon ga: aap khud apnay andar skill paida kijiye aur yeh sochna chor dijiye ke aap kamayein gay to bachon ka kaam chalay ga. Bachon kay liye tum mehnat karo, un kay liye instinct paida kijiye.

Yeh do baatein mein arz karoon ga aap say. Maulana agla sawal Dr Fareeda comment hai Maulana Dr Fareeda khanoom ka Delhi say aur unhon nay likha