Explanation of reconciliation of hearts
“Please explain about 'taleef-e-qalb' (reconciliation of hearts). If you could explain with an example, it would be very kind.”Asked by نفیض, دلی
He answers at 1:03:36 in Creative Solution or Ijtihadi Hul 16th Sep '12 SLOW · 3 min 46 sec
1:03:36maulana, agla sawal dilli se hai nafeez sahib ka. unhon ne aap se talif-e-qalb ke bare mein poocha hai aur unhon ne likha hai ke agar koi misaal de kar agar aap samjhane ka koshish karen to bohat meharbani hogi. dekhen, talif-e-qalb jo hai, is ko angrezi mein kahenge "softening".
1:03:59"softening the heart" dil ko naram karna, aur yeh ek fitrat ka qanoon hai. aap har kaam mein aisa karte hain. aap jab business karte hain ya aap job karte hain, aap rishtedaron se milte hain, har jagah aap yeh usool istemal karte hain talif-e-qalb ka, yaani dil ko naram karne wali baat.
1:04:22to yeh koi anokhi baat nahin hai. isi ka islam mein dawat ke maqsad ke liye istemal kiya gaya hai. woh kaise? jaise ke aap naram boli bolen, achhe alfaaz mein is ko khitab karen. ek kitab woh farz ki jiye ke khareedne ke liye keh raha hai, aap free mein de den is
1:04:45ko. yeh sab talif-e-qalb hai. jaise ek sahab ne mujhe waqea bataya ke woh bus mein safar kar rahe the to hamare haan ki chhapi hui kitaab, is ka naam hai "insaan apne aap ko pehchan".
1:05:02woh urdu mein, hindi mein, english mein, teeno zabanon mein milti hai. to woh parh rahe the is ko to ek ghair muslim wahan baithe hue the, un ko yeh naam kuch ek ek woh kuch naam se attract hue, woh ke "insaan ne apne aap ko pehchan". to unhon ne kaha ke yeh kitaab kya mein khareed sakta hoon? matlab is kitaab ko chahte the
1:05:30ke paise de kar khareedein. to unhon ne kaha is ko mein aap ko gift deta hoon. yeh hai talif-e-qalb. to talif-e-qalb koi anokhi cheez nahi hai.
1:05:43mauqa mauqa ke lehaz se, jaise aap kisi jagah gaye, kisi gurudware mein, mandir mein to wahan parshad diya. ab aap kahein ke "ae yeh to yeh to shirk hai, yeh to yeh to jaiz nahi hai". to yeh talif-e-qalb ke khilaf hoga.
1:06:02aap le lijiye is ko bohat shauq se, shukriya ada karte hue, aur woh talif-e-qalb ki niyat se lijiye is ko to sawab ho jaye ga aap ko. to talif-e-qalb ka koi laga bata hasil nahi hai. mauqa ke lehaz se mad'u ko ke dil ko naram karna aur us ko is aisa, yani aisi
1:06:27situation create karna ke bohat hi normal zehan ke sath woh aap se baat kare, aap kitaab ko parhein. bas isi ka naam talif-e-qalb hai. is ka is ki koi fees nahi bana sakte aap.
1:06:43koi is ki fees nahi hai ke aap jab mandir mein jayein to parshad qabool kar lein. aisi koi fees nahi hai. har mauqa ke lehaz se talif-e-qalb hoti hai. to agar aap ko dawat ka jazba aap ke andar deta hai, aap madu ke sath aap ka
1:07:04rafqa hain, yaani aap ke andar madu friendly zehan hai, aap ke andar madu friendly zehan hai, to aap khud foran aap ko samajh mein aa jayega ke yahan par hum talif e qalb ka kaun sa tareeqa istemal karen jo moasser ho. maulana, agla sawal dilli se hai doctor tahir ka.