If a friend has betrayed you, Maulana says you were living in a false impression, and the first step is to admit your own fault.50:52 He explains that the world's system runs on self-interest, not on friendship.50:21 When someone treats you badly, he says that person is giving you the greatest gift.61:25 It is a great opportunity to answer bad treatment with love, prayers, and good treatment.63:46 If revenge comes to mind, he advises thinking before revenge that revenge itself will also be avenged.15:24 And he advises not to look at what others call you, but to look into your own heart according to your conscience.52:17