He says that when you are criticised, you should first check if there is any truth in what was said, and if so, correct yourself.42:52 If the criticism is false and an allegation, he advises to avoid it and not get involved, because reacting wastes your time while staying quiet saves it.43:20 He describes a person who treats you badly as giving you a great gift, because it gives you the opportunity to respond with love and kindness instead of reacting.61:04 He teaches that the believer swallows anger inward and never projects it outward onto others.20:17 He cites the example of Maryam, who faced gossip and slander, and shows that Allah always supports the believer in their trials.32:37